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ORIGINAL: celticlord2112

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Now, rather than looking at ANY of this as failure on some one's part, look at this as suddenly revealing the opportunity to work together to become a better people and a stronger couple. What I strive to do is "fix" my part in an issue and "support" my partner in fixing hers. Saying "you fucked up this part and need to man/woman up and fix it" rarely works. It is the difference between saying "you should" and "this would deepen my submission"...

I can't add anything to this. It just needs to be repeated....a lot.