ProtagonistLily -> RE: Interogation Scene (6/17/2008 4:33:59 AM)
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I would like to try an interrogation scene with my boy. I have already decided that I would be basically trying to get the safeword out of him (we talked about it and that gives him the power to end the scene successfully if anything is too much for him). I know I want to tie him to a chair. I know I want to put a pillowcase or something over his head. I would like to slap him. But other than that I am suffering a real shortage of ideas. Can anyone help? PS. We have not really explored the pain side of BDSM, aside from some spankings that left bruises and a light flogging. I don't want to go crazy but I would also like to explore the sadistic side of my personality some more. Call me a stick in the mud, but I'm not a fan of 'playing' with an established safeword. In my opinion, and I'm sure others mileage will vary radically, if you make the safeword prosaic, when the time comes to really need it, it won't have the same emphisis that it, in my opinion, should have. That's not to say you should scrap the idea. I love interrogation, and the edgier the better. There's really no reason that you can't incorporate the "Word" that you are trying to get into the scene. Could you use something besides a word? A code perhaps, a name? These could all be easily planted into the scene with a little pre-planning. Like I said, I'm a BIG fan of this type of play, but not so hot on the idea of pulling the bottom's safe word out just for the sake of making them use it. Safe words should be respected for what they are, is my opinion, and not used for 'fun'. PL
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