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RE: confused slave - 6/18/2008 7:47:24 AM   
clearlightblack


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Status: offline 		maybe she should be talking to us..........that is if her master lets her

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RE: confused slave - 6/18/2008 8:27:45 AM   
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ORIGINAL: clearlightblack

maybe she should be talking to us..........that is if her master lets her



Which master? 

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RE: confused slave - 6/18/2008 7:41:31 PM   
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Status: offline </image/blank.gif> Hello,

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub. She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet. She also has a vanilla. I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her. Keep in mind she is "Owned"




pr5,

very simple. she is owned, so the answer is nothing.

CP

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RE: confused slave - 6/19/2008 9:07:29 AM   
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I just don't get how if she's owned, that she can't decide if she wants to be your sub or slave.



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RE: confused slave - 6/19/2008 5:50:23 PM   
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Hello,

Right now I do have a slave that does not know if she if she wants to be a slave or sub. She has a collar and I have meet her master, but have not played out anything with her yet. She also has a vanilla. I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her. Keep in mind she is "Owned"

Thank You.


Right now, you got chick taking advantage of 3 men.

I am owned, by the man who owns me. He's the same man I play with, live with, and hopefully will marry. One of me. One of him.

Unless you are in some kind of open Gorean or Poly relationship and all of these people are aware of each other, you seem to be getting screwed. And probably not in the good way.

PL

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RE: confused slave - 6/19/2008 8:04:29 PM   
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I think confused Dom would have been a more apt title 
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RE: confused slave - 6/19/2008 9:12:55 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		Why should it matter to you whether she is a sub or a slave since she will never be YOUR sub or slave?   Let her Master or her hubby decide what label should be pasted to her forehead so she can be put into the proper box. 

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RE: confused slave - 6/19/2008 9:45:43 PM   
underXyourXhand


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Status: offline 		what exactly is a vanilla?  how do you have one?  some one please inform me, I am new to this lifestyle and am quite confused by some of the terms.  

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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 8:37:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: underXyourXhand

what exactly is a vanilla?  how do you have one?  some one please inform me, I am new to this lifestyle and am quite confused by some of the terms.  


Vanilla partner means the partner you have got NO BDSM relationship with. It is coming from the idea there is no extra flavor added in vanilla ice-cream . BDSM is a flavor you add to your relationship (its assumed) . So we can offer you different flavored relationships from ice-cream bar :)

Enjoy the taste
Hermes

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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 8:50:46 AM   
subdevra


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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 8:57:41 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 9:46:16 PM   
lassnmo


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Status: offline 		Sir, 
From what i was taught, now i may be wrong but i don't think so.  If she is a Slave and has a Master he can lend her out do with her as he wishes.  You can't own her, and he can have many if he decides to as what is is..

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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 9:59:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		Umm,,you do need to talk to her husband and her owner. Otherwise, you are just too late getting in on enjoying her.

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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 10:09:18 PM   
angelicbitch


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Status: offline 		wow ... ummmm I need score cards.. I don't understand a bit of what the OP said.....YIKES.. think I will just hide now lol

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RE: confused slave - 6/20/2008 10:27:42 PM   
GreedyTop


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the female:  married to a nilla guy, collared to a dom (but doesnt know if she's a sub or slave)
the OP (who is none of the above) wants to know what he can 'do' with her.

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RE: confused slave - 6/21/2008 2:16:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks for stating what I was thinking Bear.  I was wondering if it was the diet pepsi for a moment there.

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RE: confused slave - 6/22/2008 2:22:49 AM   
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I just need a slave or subs advice on what to do with her.  Keep in mind she is "Owned"


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I am a need a Code of Conduct from another master, or a refrence to a site where I can get one.


quote:

Problem one is just becoming a slave and the other one had 6 years exp. What do I need to know to possibly keep a good poly household. 


Is one of these these ladies  you've mentioned previously the confused slave in question?  Are you thinking of having a poly household made up of you, her Master, his slave, and the experienced sub?  If so then perhaps you should consult the other Master about the Code of Conduct and you both should include all those items important to you both. 

If you want my advice, here it is.  You have 10 years of experience.  You are an expert in many BDSM type activities.  You are searching for a sub/slave who can also be your romantic interest.  You're not gonna find that with someone (and it doesn't really matter if she thinks she's a sub or slave...labels don't count for much) who has to ask her Master when and if she can play with you. 

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RE: confused slave - 6/22/2008 4:33:11 PM   
tigerseye


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Status: offline 		um....>_>....<_<....>_>...hmm...i think the only thing i have to add to this is:

it doesn't seem to me like this is a very fun situation to be in.....


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RE: confused slave - 6/26/2008 4:47:02 PM   
kaylana


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Status: offline 		now im confused as you told me you wanted me to be your one and only.... you never told me you had a slave.... are you lieing to me? your meeting me in 2 weeks.... you nest come clean now please?.. i am neither fo those girls you speak off? WTF is going on?

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RE: confused slave - 6/26/2008 5:24:01 PM   
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