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Longing - 6/17/2008 7:24:02 PM

MisfitKat

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Lately i have been finding myself lost in contemplation.. reflections upon submission that has caused my body to become in a state of painfuly sweet longing... a hunger to be in those momnents of complete submission.... a hunger so great that tears welm and my entire frame seems caught up.. and then the memory melts and disipaites and i am left with but a shadow of an after taste and the remebrance of the desire.........

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RE: Longing - 6/17/2008 7:39:26 PM

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Sub frenzy.
And yes, I totally understand.

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RE: Longing - 6/17/2008 9:24:25 PM

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I felt that way about getting in a jam session. I was holding my guitar, listening to some Dave Matthews, and god damned if I didn't just want to go out, tie some people to chairs, hand them an instrument and jam out all night. I want a good gig so bad right now it hurts.

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 4:58:47 AM

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I wanna jam with a blues band. Is sub frenzy a good or bad thing?

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 6:03:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisfitKat

Lately i have been finding myself lost in contemplation.. reflections upon submission that has caused my body to become in a state of painfuly sweet longing... a hunger to be in those momnents of complete submission.... a hunger so great that tears welm and my entire frame seems caught up.. and then the memory melts and disipaites and i am left with but a shadow of an after taste and the remebrance of the desire.........

Tell me about it. In less than three weeks, I'm going to be the happiest subby on the planet. Mistress is coming down to spend six weeks with me! I'm so excited that I can't even describe it. The thing that sucks major ass is after the six weeks is up, She starts nursing school in October and I won't get to see Her again till at least June next year when She finally finishes! So, when you talk about painful longing, I can certainly relate and understand.

I think there needs to be a support group for subs and slaves temporarily seperated from their dommes.

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 7:32:25 AM

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Think about something else, busy yourself. Hormone induced rages get people into trouble. If you don't have your own dominant...control yourself so you don't get hurt.

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 7:44:15 AM

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i completely understand what you are saying....

as for busying myself to distract myself......

ha! it only lasts so long. I have a new house I am trying to put into order and a very healthy flourishing garden and still.....

Last night.....a longing that ended in such a great

yeah that one's mine.

And I second rubberpet's idea.

Support Group! Sign me up!

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 7:49:40 AM

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Masturbation works wonders.

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 7:55:31 AM

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As xxblushesxx so rightly said, its sub frenzy. And i completely empathise with you, i've been there and its not a good place.. Currently trying to council a friend through this at the moment.

The best thing you can do, hard as it might be.. Is take a step back, take a metaphorical deep breath and try to calm down. Try to find something to occupy yourself with and exercise some patience, try to keep in control of it.
In my experience, sub frenzy can make a girl come across as desperate so that anybody safe or worth going there with would be put off, it also entices a submissive into taking risks, and given that the only ones interested in a person in that kind of state are the ones more likely to take risks.. Doesn't make for a good picture.

Hope it all works out for you x

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 10:39:30 AM

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quote:

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Tell me about it. In less than three weeks, I'm going to be the happiest subby on the planet. Mistress is coming down to spend six weeks with me! I'm so excited that I can't even describe it. The thing that sucks major ass is after the six weeks is up, She starts nursing school in October and I won't get to see Her again till at least June next year when She finally finishes! So, when you talk about painful longing, I can certainly relate and understand.

I think there needs to be a support group for subs and slaves temporarily seperated from their dommes.

Oh my! You won't be able to visit her?

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 12:59:29 PM

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quote:

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Tell me about it. In less than three weeks, I'm going to be the happiest subby on the planet. Mistress is coming down to spend six weeks with me! I'm so excited that I can't even describe it. The thing that sucks major ass is after the six weeks is up, She starts nursing school in October and I won't get to see Her again till at least June next year when She finally finishes! So, when you talk about painful longing, I can certainly relate and understand.

I think there needs to be a support group for subs and slaves temporarily seperated from their dommes.

well damn, honey! *hugs ya*

i'm feeling the pain...moving as of friday to be with TheEngineer, you know? so he calls me yesterday and his company is sending him out of town. monday or tuesday. for 3 or 4 weeks.

so, yeah. *sighs*

kitten, who is as done packing as she can be without the last minute stuff.

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 1:50:47 PM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: rubberpet

Tell me about it. In less than three weeks, I'm going to be the happiest subby on the planet. Mistress is coming down to spend six weeks with me! I'm so excited that I can't even describe it. The thing that sucks major ass is after the six weeks is up, She starts nursing school in October and I won't get to see Her again till at least June next year when She finally finishes! So, when you talk about painful longing, I can certainly relate and understand.

I think there needs to be a support group for subs and slaves temporarily seperated from their dommes.

Oh my! You won't be able to visit her?

Unfortunately, no. My financial situation is really, really tight (as I think everyone's is) and I don't have the extra money to take time off from work to go up there...unless things change for the better. We talk every single day for a few hours at a time, so it's not like She's going off to a remote island. While the phone calls are nice, nothing can replace good ol' fashioned skin-to-skin contact...am I right?

It will be rough, but once nursing school is over and She graduates, She'll be moving down here to get a job! So, there is a happy ending after all!

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 1:54:39 PM

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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: rubberpet
Tell me about it. In less than three weeks, I'm going to be the happiest subby on the planet. Mistress is coming down to spend six weeks with me! I'm so excited that I can't even describe it. The thing that sucks major ass is after the six weeks is up, She starts nursing school in October and I won't get to see Her again till at least June next year when She finally finishes! So, when you talk about painful longing, I can certainly relate and understand.

I think there needs to be a support group for subs and slaves temporarily seperated from their dommes.

well damn, honey! *hugs ya*

i'm feeling the pain...moving as of friday to be with TheEngineer, you know? so he calls me yesterday and his company is sending him out of town. monday or tuesday. for 3 or 4 weeks.

so, yeah. *sighs*

kitten, who is as done packing as she can be without the last minute stuff.

Thanks for the hugs! Congrats on your big move, too! Hopefully, the three or so weeks will fly by quickly and you get to talk to him everyday. Phone calls are a nice substitute in a pinch.

OK...group hug!

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RE: Longing - 6/18/2008 2:09:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: rubberpet

quote:

ORIGINAL: pixidustpet

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ORIGINAL: rubberpet
Tell me about it. In less than three weeks, I'm going to be the happiest subby on the planet. Mistress is coming down to spend six weeks with me! I'm so excited that I can't even describe it. The thing that sucks major ass is after the six weeks is up, She starts nursing school in October and I won't get to see Her again till at least June next year when She finally finishes! So, when you talk about painful longing, I can certainly relate and understand.

I think there needs to be a support group for subs and slaves temporarily seperated from their dommes.

well damn, honey! *hugs ya*

i'm feeling the pain...moving as of friday to be with TheEngineer, you know? so he calls me yesterday and his company is sending him out of town. monday or tuesday. for 3 or 4 weeks.

so, yeah. *sighs*

kitten, who is as done packing as she can be without the last minute stuff.

Thanks for the hugs! Congrats on your big move, too! Hopefully, the three or so weeks will fly by quickly and you get to talk to him everyday. Phone calls are a nice substitute in a pinch.

OK...group hug!

yay group hugs!!

the move...is imp torture. driving from florida to texas with the teen sitting between us, oh yeah the kid is gonna LOVE that! *giggling*

no talking on the phone but daily emails....he's going to china and to korea. boo hiss!!!

kitten

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