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male2shemaid -> Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 10:20:36 AM)
Just wondering if any subs on here ever actually yearn to being part of a submissive couple? Whenever I come across adverts/profiles on BDSM sites from submissive couples I am always fascinated by the dynamic and I can only assume they were in a vanilla relationship before they discovered BDSM... and hence each wished to be sub as they began to explore BDSM? I do not recall ever seeing an advert from a sub advertising to be in a relationship with another sub (I am talking 1 on 1 now male and female relationships as opposed to, for example, married couples seeking a second female sub).

spinninsweetness -> RE: Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 11:26:36 AM)
I was messaged by a sub male looking to form a sub-sub relationship. He wanted to form kind of a.... protective couple, kind of to explore and find a Dom/me for them both. Seemed to be a protection kind of deal... looking out for each other, experiencing new things together. I said no because it didnt really appeal to me.

subtee -> RE: Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 12:50:55 PM)
Male sub: So…what do you wanna do? Female sub: Wellllll, what would you like? Male sub: Me? Oh. Um… Female sub: You know…I mean what would you enjoy? Male sub: You know what?…I’d like to do what you’d like to do. Whatever you like...to do. Female sub: Oh my god! I can’t believe you said that ‘cause I was just thinking that what would make me happy would be to do what you want to make you happy! Male sub: Really? Wow…and what would I would enjoy would be what you-- Female sub: Oh. ~uncomfortable pause~ Male sub: So…what do you wanna do? Female sub: thinking Note to self: subs are a hard limit

housesub4you -> RE: Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 12:58:21 PM)
LMAO I went to a sub munch once, you must have been there because that was basically every conversation.

CruelDesires -> RE: Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 1:38:53 PM)
I have been approached by sub "couples" in the past. In every case it was the male half looking for kink while using his wife as "bait" to see if I was interested in an interaction with them. Or should I say him. Which now makes me skeptical if there are even that many sub/sub couples in existence. CD

tsatske -> RE: Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 1:47:26 PM)
I know a few sub/sub couples, but it seems the relationship was always in place before the BDSM. And i think even that is rare, because the Dom sub thing is something that is there, strong exuding energy in one direction of the other, for most people, rather they are kinky or not, and i think it rare for people to be attracted to 'like' energy rather than 'different'.

AMaster -> RE: Half of a sub couple? (6/20/2008 2:05:28 PM)
As a DOM, I've run into the same thing too often.

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