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Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 10:34:27 AM   
male2shemaid


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Status: offline 		Just wondering if there are any femsubs out there who prefer to submit to younger Dommes and, vice versa, if there are young Dommes who prefer older femsubs?

If so, what is it about the dynamic of the age relationship that appeals? Just curious to understand what is going on in the mind of both that causes one to seek a younger Domme or an older femsub?

(I am thinking here, of course, only of any consenting adult(s) aged 21 or over.)
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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 10:39:47 AM   
stef


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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 10:41:56 AM   
DominantJenny


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I've noticed that I have a tendency to like older women...not that I haven't liked women my age or younger, but the women I am most attracted to frequently turn out to be several years older than me. No idea why...I think it's just coincidence, really. With men, I kept dating virgins...again, not deliberately, it just happened that way.

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 10:50:10 AM   
male2shemaid


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quote:

ORIGINAL: stef

What's your real question?

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That is the REAL question? Sorry, but I am not cryptic or beat around the bush kind of person. I ask a question in plain old English. Sorry if you could not understand it.

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 11:02:55 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		when it comes to women I want to top, I like them my age or younger. women that I want to bottom to, are usually older. pretty much the same with men, exept he can't be to much younger then me.

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 11:04:27 AM   
Deliena


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From: Darlington, United Kingdom
Status: offline 		I'm currently in a relationship with a younger Dom (he's 8 years younger than me at 25).  He hasn't ever dated an older woman before, I've never dated a younger man before, it just works with us.  That said, I'm a bi-sexual switch (although in this relationship I'm in the submissive role) so it may be the case that it's just a reflection of the fact that for me the chemistry comes from the individual rather than an archetype.

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 3:34:15 PM   
piopunahele


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Status: offline 		The man I serve is younger than me.  Before him, I have only dated older men.  He is the only man I have ever served or submitted to specifically, and I can't say that I actively or consciously made a choice to be his slave.  I came at this from an odd angle I think.  I was more spiritually motivated and dedicated myself to leading a life of service in general, believing that is the key to a life of abundance (abundance in general, not so much monetary).  I found it to be true.  The more I gave of myself, the more I was fulfilled and had alll my needs met on every level.  I'm still not really sure how that turned into my being a slave to B.  I think he just kind of saw how I was and used it to put me at his feet. He figured if I was into leading a life of service, why not service to him specifically.  However it happened, I've never been happier or more fulfilled.  The age difference has been completely irrelevant.

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 8:18:56 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		I'm a young Domme and I like young slaves and older slaves.

Age doesn't matter, it's how good they serve and obey. :)

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 10:07:27 PM   
AMaster


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Status: offline 		Why not?  Age should not be a problem if two people are compatable.   

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/20/2008 11:52:12 PM   
Skully7000


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Status: offline 		I've always been an "old soul" mixed with a "young at heart" type personality... I was always the 8 year old sitting with the adults have mature conversations while the other kids played ball and tag...

for most of my childhood my summers were spend going to day camp with my 2 aunts one was a counselar 12 years older then I, the other only 5 years older. since the younger was closer in age with me then she was with her own sister...we became very good friends. during and after the camp I spent most of my time with the younger aunt and her friends. so I "grew up" being 5 years older then my real age.

it wasn't until i was almost 25 that people stopped guessing my age at 5 years older then I really was...

so most of my life I've just always felt more comfortable with older people.
my girlfriend is about 7 years older then me... the oldest I ever dated was 18 years older, and we lasted almost 2 years. lets not get into the oldest person I ever slept with... actually lets.. she was 3 years older then twice my age.. and sexxy as hell.

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I think the biggest thing I search for is someone who like me has a fair amount of wisdom/maturity, while still fully in touch with their inner child.

I want to hear someone say " i'm to old for this shit" laugh and keep going...
I hate to hear someone say "i'm to old for THAT shit" as they watch everyone else go by.

cheers
Skully

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/21/2008 12:19:17 AM   
LustLoveLoyalty


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Status: offline 		I am a young domme and have a decent amount of experience with male subs, all of which have been older than me.  I am currently looking to explore female submission, age is not a huge deal.  I just want someone who healthy, attractive, and in good shape... so if she is 21 or 61 if she does not take care of her body its really not of interest to me.   Hopefully I will find the right one for me soon, and maybe I will be singing a different song.  But as of right now, I am not super picky.

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RE: Older femsubs, Younger Dommes - 6/21/2008 5:38:28 AM   
VictoriaDoll4her


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Status: offline 		I was seeing a slightly domme woman, she was 21 yrs my junior it didn't seem to matter a bit.  Wasn't any bdsm,  but I did discover there's a submissive little girl in me. 

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