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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/22/2008 8:11:26 AM

MasterHermes

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After reading the full text , I do not think she sounds unintelligent. It sounds like she has a lousy writing style (English may or may not be her first language). Unfortunately the problem is , this kind of writing became acceptable in the internet age. It is sad to see more and more people care less about what they are writing.

If we really call it something, I would say this might have something to do with this persons education than her intelligence. But you never can be sure, sometimes the best educated people are doing it. The bottom line is you are correct , if English is her first language, this person doesnt have good communication skills.

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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/22/2008 11:46:39 PM

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ORIGINAL: GoddessNubiana

Anyone who cannot speak or write properly is a turn off especially since a Dom is supposed to be above all things, intelligent. It takes a high level of proper communication at least in my experience to set the mood. If you have to question it like this, you already have the answer you seek. Don't let your gut down.

Agreed. I really could only enjoy someone with at least an average intelligence (prefer above average). Wicked wordplay, clever conversation, a wide range of interests is a terrible turn-on.

Isn't it???

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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/23/2008 5:22:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP Please keep in mind that if what you insist on is someone who has superb command of written English, that you cannot then expect them to also be math whiz kids.

We can't? Some of the most intelligent people I have ever known were talented in almost every academic subject. I expect the truly intelligent to be able to master the fundamentals of most anything they develop an interest in - which isn't to say, they might not still need a proofreader.

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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/23/2008 7:31:25 AM

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Speaking as one of the millions of service men who has spent time overseas. I don't think any of them gave a damm if the woman could speak English. To them the op would be a laughing stock for bitching about it.

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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/23/2008 8:14:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
I'm actually more disturbed that she's willing to be taken by a total stranger to a strange place from her home (assuming), all at the client's whim. That just doesn't "feel right" to me.

Quoted for emphasis.

I haven't read the email you posted, on purpose. I consider it tacky -- at best -- to post correspondence publicly unless you get consent of the writer.

What is clear, though, is that neither you nor this domme have the faintest fucking idea what you are doing. She's not protecting her own safety, and you are posting her private correspondence. Neither of you is showing the understanding of boundaries necessary to engage in safe BDSM activities.

Take time out to learn basic safety rules before meeting the next domme.

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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/23/2008 8:21:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: subsubtle

Here is the rest of the email, incase anyone is interested...

Chose what type of domination session intereste u besides what i usually do: I recieve: FULL BODY WORSHIP/ ORAL & TONGUE CONTACT * SMOOTHERING * MASSAGE * DOMESTIC & GROOMING SERVITUDE * FOOT WORSHIP * NYLONS , PANTIES, SHOES WHORSHIP ETC * I GIVE: STRAPON* DILDO TRAINING * HAND JOB *FOOT JOB* HUMILIATION * SPANKING * CBT * MILD RESTRAINTS *GOLDEN SHOWERS * TRAMPLING ETC MY INFO
MY AVAILABILITY FOR MEETINGS: EVERY DAY BETWEEN 10 AM TILL 10 PM NEWEST MEETING LOCATION : [OMITTED] (i hope u consider it a safe and discrete meeting place as i want it to be safe and discrete also) CHECK DRIVING DIRECTIONS DIRECTIONS WITH : www.mapquest.com SESSION LOCATION: YOUR PLACE OR DISCRETE MOTELS IN TEWKSBURY/MASS 2 MILES AWAY FROM MEETING PLACE ($75 or $85 a room) I accepte u drive me to your chosen location (your place) for the domination session as long as u drive me back in lowell MY TRIBUTE (RATE OR CHARGE): $120 / HOUR PH# [OMITTED] - i use it to confirm same day meeting appoinment with a text message on your cellular, faster than by email (as i only check my emails 3 times per day- no more). PS: I'll describe my outfits for u to recognize me easy at the meeting location. Call me (i advice u to get a $15 tracfone or go phone from radioshack , add minuts using a prepaid phone card from cvs and most of all hide the phone / phone number of your collegs/familly - as i do not want any complications/troubles for u and me) when u arrive at the meeting location and directe me to your car as u see me sitting on a bench in front of auditorium's building. CONSIDERE FAMILLY/JOB EMERGENCIES WHEN U SET UP MEETING

Something just doesn't sit right about all this

What disturbs me most is that the "unintelligent" OP who apparently has no idea what the difference is between legal (ymmv, but I think people know what I mean) S&M in a professional setting vs. prostitution solicited via Cragislist. Hooray for VD and vice cops arresting your ass for answering this ad! Dude, go to Maxfisch and visit a legit dungeon. It's hysterical that you are ripping on a $2 whore who uses "domination" as a front for giving handjobs and letting your tongue come in contact with her skanky, diseased pussy and claiming she's the one who is a bonehead.

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RE: Unintelligent Mistresses? - 6/23/2008 8:27:30 AM

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A Dom who is intelligent is a huge turn on for me. After all Domming is More mental then physical anyway ( even though i love the fact he is much stronger than me physically). I could not be with someone who is not intelligent. I want someone who i can talk to outside of a scene. I love that i found a Master who is equal or even supieor to me in Intelligence.

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