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devoutHeretic -> Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 10:48:28 PM)

Hi all,

So, here is My Issue...
I'm a straight (as far as I know) male top.
I'm str8 in that ive never been attracted to a boy
I'm male in that i have a dangly bit in the nether region
and I'm a top because...well...imma top, ffs


but, my..mine..Kyle's biggest physical "turn on" is wearing a bra
which is kinda defined as a male sub thing( in the male sexual fetish/kink arena)

so... its kinda a 2 part question...
are there any subbie gurls out their that might accept a daddy in "girls clothes"?
and...
Am I being blind to a possible Queer/TV/Subbie side of my sexual nature?




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 10:50:44 PM)

There are tons of TV and TS dominants out there. You might have found a crossdressing fetish in yourself,  yes. But that doent impact your dominance. It might mean you arent going to be looking for a little girl to come to Daddy, but more an understanding sub looking for a low-key trans or crossdresser. 




Leatherist -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 10:59:14 PM)

A bra like this might be fun!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTv9AhCuSU4




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:01:47 PM)

as far as a crossdressing fetish goes...duh


and, yea, there are a ton of TV/TS dommes out there, yea they exist...and almost exclusively they work with queer boys








Leatherist -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:09:28 PM)

It's not a really popular kink with female subs.




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:13:41 PM)

oops




Leatherist -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:16:23 PM)

Whaddaya want, Jerry Falwell?[:D]




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:17:15 PM)

no


i mean...

fuck no...

anything but that




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:22:53 PM)

The clothes one chooses to wear has nothing to do with one's sexual orientation.  Women wear pants without being gay, men wear skirts and the same applies.

If you can imagine something, it exists and someone is very happily doing it right now, so yes, there are subs out there who had no problem with a dom who also cross dresses.

But you need to gain a little more confidence and understanding in who you are and what you want before you tackle that.




Leatherist -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:25:29 PM)

I had a sub once who talked about a trannie Master she had. She was all confuzzled by it-did not know whether to call him Master or Mistress. So she finally compromised, and just called him "Mattress".




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:31:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: devoutHeretic

as far as a crossdressing fetish goes...duh


and, yea, there are a ton of TV/TS dommes out there, yea they exist...and almost exclusively they work with queer boys






If your going to be a jackass about responding you arent going to get much in the way of assistance.
I have known TS Dommes who worked with straight girls, since they were straight men with crossdressing fetishes (sound familiar?)
I have known very few who work with "queer boys" since gay men usually want Masters that look like men since thats what attracts them. Ive also known quite a few that were very well paid pros.

Have fun figuring out who and what you are and what you might want.

DV




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:31:06 PM)

Leatherist,

In the world of crappy, easy "LOL"'s

you actually made me laugh out loud.

Thank you




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:33:38 PM)

name calling...very constructive




SimplyMichael -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:42:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: devoutHeretic

Hi all,

So, here is My Issue...
I'm a straight (as far as I know) male top.
I'm str8 in that ive never been attracted to a boy
I'm male in that i have a dangly bit in the nether region
and I'm a top because...well...imma top, ffs


but, my..mine..Kyle's biggest physical "turn on" is wearing a bra
which is kinda defined as a male sub thing( in the male sexual fetish/kink arena)

so... its kinda a 2 part question...
are there any subbie gurls out their that might accept a daddy in "girls clothes"?
and...
Am I being blind to a possible Queer/TV/Subbie side of my sexual nature?



Heretic,

Ignore the rather ugly negativity so far in this thread.

First off, what defines someone as gay is craving cock not wearing a bra.  That said, I can't imagine it is common, but there are women who love TVs and such although more often they are dominants but I found that if you throw your head back and be proud of who you are, it is going to turn someone on.




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/21/2008 11:46:21 PM)

SimplyMichael,

I do suppse that is the rub.

I do have a self confidence issue.

I wish I could reconsile the binary and the duality, as it were.




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/22/2008 12:02:50 AM)

LuckyAlbatross,

I could not agree more.

But, of course, that isnt the issue

I'm gonna keep trying, and thanx for the wurdz


Oh yea, I added you to my LJ friends list...I hope you dun mind


edit: spelling crimes




shivermetimbers -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/22/2008 12:35:25 AM)

I can only answer the second part of your question.  What a dominant wears means little to me.  Also, I feel how you view your orientation has nothing to do with what you are wearing, whether it be a bra, jeans, or a suit of armor.  You alone would only know if you are being blind to anything regarding your sexual nature.




devoutHeretic -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/22/2008 12:50:20 AM)

maybe my pool of subs is too shallow.

I dont like one line responses in a thread with deep implications (even if I am the OP)
but, yea




shivermetimbers -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/22/2008 1:13:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: devoutHeretic

maybe my pool of subs is too shallow.

I dont like one line responses in a thread with deep implications (even if I am the OP)
but, yea



Well, you asked a two part question.  The first part was to subbie girls.  I am not a subbie girl. My opinion is not valid.  I am a male subbie.

To the second part of your question, what are you looking for?  Elaboration in the length of a dissertation? I'm only giving my opinion, and I think what I said, though brief, is succint and to the point.  What do you want me to do?  Give you a definitive yes or no as to whether you are a latent submissive drag queen?  I mean really, wtf? How much more do I need to go on?  I am straight.  I could also submit to a couple where there is a penis involved.  It's not a sexual issue to me.  So for the "penis" dominant, what the penis wears means nothing to me.  It could be Jack Lambert in a tutu, but if he's someone I feel submissive to, the tutu means nothing. Just as I don't feel submissive to a dominant female only because she wears stilletos and leather.  It could be baggy t-shirts and sweat pants.  It could be suits for either.  It could be a catwoman costume for either.

You alone are what you identify as.  Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress, slave, sub, T/S, CD, dyke, fag, rogue, straight, bi, the list goes on.  As long as you come across to another individual for what you want to come across as, you have accomplished your desire.

Is that elaborate enough?  Or can I simply go back to saying, "you are what you think you are, not anyone else?"

Sorry for the flaming 'tude, but you ask a question in the forums, you will get replies you like or dislike, agree or disagree with.  Regardless, you shouldn't flame out either. You put yourself in the position, not me.




MissMagnolia -> RE: Bra wearing Top (6/22/2008 1:28:28 AM)

I thought DV's first response was pretty good advice. Short and to the point. It's a shame you didn't look at it in the same way it was given, as a hand offered to someone who is going through some doubts about himself. Funnily enough, the very reason you posted this question in a thread.

Maybe you know, deep down, that you are a "queer boy", sissy, turd burgling, ass pirate, shirt lifting poofter homo and you're scared to admit it?.




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