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MatinaNemesis -> RE: Somebody please tell me (7/9/2008 4:08:06 AM)
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I am a very successful pro dom, but what often makes me laugh and shake my head is that for some strange reason people automatically think a pro dom "just does it for the money"...kind of like.... you can "visit a real dom" or you can "visit a pro dom that just wants your money" this is incredibly unjust as I know many that truely enjoy what they do ( and would do it for free ) but they have found an opporunity to work with something that they enjoy...and lets face it , who wouldnt LOVE that !
I am VERY finacially secure, and I would never have to work again should I choose not to...but I continue because I LOVE what I do and have no plans to stop.
Yes, I am in the position to be able to see only the people I desire to see, but still I do it because its part of me and I enjoy it and Im sure there are many other Pro Mistresses out there that feel the same way.
Just because some Mistresses take money for their services does not automatically mean that they "just do it for cash", otherwise you could be missing out on something special.
Lets face it, if a good pro Mistress, enjoys what she does then she is lightly to have the best equipment, nice premises, first class hygiene, first class safety, a good background in psychology, and probably wont watch the clock in your visit.
If you compared this to some of the horror stories I have been told from people that have met other so called "mistresses" it would certainly make you think twice.
Yes there are VERY MANY out there that only do it for cold hard cash, but not everyone, so please dont paint paint everyone with the same negative brush.
Like with everything, you need to "shop around" for the best deal, otherwise an appropriate saying is....if you pay peanuts......you get monkeys.
Some people cut their own hair at home, but it usually looks best after a visit to a professional salon, but would the hairstylist do it for you in thier shop for free ? I doubt it, she has running costs etc..in order to be able to offer you the possibility of this service, and for her personal time and attention. This person has chosen to do this job because they have an interest in it.....but does that mean she should work for free ? do you work at your job for free ? The fact that you possibly have a job that you dont enjoy is really your unfortunate concern.
Then we get to the "money gift" part of this post....for me its quite simple, those that wish to send a gift of some kind to me for whatever reason...is quite welcome to do so!
It is not anything I make them do, it is their own free will, so is that wrong ?
Is it wrong for someone to send you a birthday card or gift ? you didnt ask for it ! you didnt do anything for it ! someone simply sent it to you because they liked you and wanted to make you happy ....is that wrong too ?
Yes I get a lot of very nice gifts, but its not me pushing for them , pressurizing for them or whatever............besides if someone didnt want to send a gift......they wouldnt ! its as simple as that.
Gift sending can be a sign of adoration, or a sign of submission or simply a pleasant gesture and is therefor enjoyable for both parties. I will be honest and say that Im like a kid on christmas morning whenever I get a gift, I cant wait to see whats inside :)
Pro Doms and Money Gifts are not for everybody, but just because its not "your thing" does not mean that people should bring "it" or other people down.
Life if for enjoying and experiencing, just learn to accept that everyone is different, with different hopes, needs, kinks and dreams.
Kind Regards
Matina Nemesis
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