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WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Vanilla date...Could he be a turn out to be a good dominant? (6/23/2008 7:07:13 PM)
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And show him some golf balls....
No, just grab him by the balls and tell him - "I can own these, or you can own them and me." If he hands them over to you, learn CBT or walk away. (I AM teasing by the way)
Ok, here I am being serious. I have no idea how important it is for you to have a dominant force in your life. Whether the desire is a driving need or an appreciated pleasure. Nor do I know how important the guy is to you, or how receptive you are to accepting the man for who he is, where he is and what he offers. I've no idea what your disappointment/devestation level will be if/when you find out that your trying to turn canaloupes into cajones. If you can ask yourself these questions and find the answers for yourself, I'd love to hear more about how things turned out for you. I think you can introduce another to kink, but you can't ever be assured what you will be getting as a result.
WD
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