krikket -> RE: Dacryphiliacs (6/25/2008 7:38:31 PM)
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As a sub, i thought i'd mention this from a different prospective. By your definition, yes, i've had my Dom do something "cruel" to help me work through something i was having trouble working through, but i didn't then, nor now, think of it as cruel as something that helped me grow. While difficult to go through (and yes, caused copious tears), when all was said and done i could see the benefits and was "thankful" that i had trusted enough for them to take me there. Cruel, to me, is when someone uses something against me, not for growth, or self-discovery, but simply to cause hurt. That person and i are no longer together.
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