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xxblushesxx -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 7:42:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Floggings4You quote: ORIGINAL: KaineD I just think it's a shame that a website with a lot of potential manages to chase away every new girl because of a bunch of sickos that can't distinguish fantasy and reality, and a "Dom" that bans subs if they don't conform to his idea of what a submissive is. If it's the one I think it is, they HOPE all right. The classifieds section is pretty hilarious. Unless you're a female who'd like to be bought...you'd have a lot of takers, even without a pic. There's no 'reality' at the website you're describing, whatsoever. It doesn't seem that anyO/one goes there with any hope of ever meeting any fellow member(s) face-to-face, let alone forming any kind of r/l relationship. It's all fantasy at this place, and assuming that every "new girl" is actually a girl--when 'she' is just as likely to be a fifteen-year-old boy (or a bored, sixty-year-old submissive man)--is probably wishful thinking.

KatyLied -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 7:52:28 AM)
If you don't like the way they play take your toys and find another sandbox.

Leatherist -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 8:03:52 AM)
It just sounds incredibly funny to me.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 8:38:41 AM)
You know, there's a lot of anti-online sentiment on these boards. And there's also a lot of good people in online rooms. Lot of losers and players too, but seperating the wheat from the chaff, the rooms aren't really any different from these message boards... just faster responses. I enjoy the rooms quite a lot. It's pretty easy to spot people who have never done this in real life... but hey, they are experimenting and they get feedback right away (often from me like... hmmmm.... 30 minutes with her nipples like that... well I hope you realize that you have just harmed her and now she has nerve damage)... Some people take the online and the message boards very seriously. Their feelings get hurt, they get furious, they are happy, etc. Think of the times someone has said something really stupid and you have been irritated. Then multiply that times 100. Online is not always fakes as has been intimated. But it is a place where many people explore the lifestyle for various reasons. I mean why are YOU reading this message board? That's the same reason many people go on line... Now, as for the "Dom"... well if enough girls leave cause he's acting like an idiot, nobody to play with. I've seen it happen. Really nice room I was in with a lot of great people... two Doms decided that they could boss all the subs / slaves around .... we said no you can't, stood up to them, the owner sided with the Doms... now the room has basically died. It's too bad cause we had some good conversations there... But I just go to another room to find the conversations... and some of the same good people. The Doms are ignored now. It's a self correcting problem. Don't let your panties get into a twist. Sunshine

MasterFireMaam -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 7:00:07 PM)
If you don't like the site, you can either try to take up a position of power in it and change it...or not go. Master Fire

AquaticSub -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 7:27:02 PM)
So why are you hanging out there? Sounds like either the mods on a power trip and only those in the clique are happy or it is a forum devoted to particular types of relationships and rules. Not every forum is designed to be even remotely fair. If you don't like it, leave. If enough people leave, the forum won't exist.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 9:45:14 PM)
I agree with Magnolia. She should have been more specific before opening herself up like that if she couldn't handle the responses. It's quite likely that's the lesson they were trying to teach her and like most people, instead of learning, they run home and cry about all those mean people.

obis -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/24/2008 10:13:20 PM)
Sounds like just another day at 4chan to me. (and I will genuinely LOL if it turns out you actually ARE talking about 4chan [:D] )

KaineD -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 5:04:17 AM)
Yeah I've got worked up over nothing I think. I don't like seeing things I percieve as "injustice" and get quite passionate about it.

lally3 -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 7:20:46 AM)
.... or... the mod really fancied the skinny pretty one, banned her and now has her all to himself - tada! - happy ending. its like those radio dj types, who set up a controversial discussion, get some person on with differing views, dj gets the last, usually sarcastic word and then cuts the contributor off. its called being power mad i think or a jerk, an abuser of power certainly - all three definitely.

Prinsexx -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 7:35:17 AM)
quote: So the sub that called her this stuff proceeds to tell her she's an immature child that can't handle it, etc. Well if you go around calling yourself a huniliation whore then what do you expect.the banned sub will be having a day off work, running a temperature, crying herself to sleep and loving every minute of it. When she hits the 'whatever' of her masovhistic cycle she'll be back under a new name simply in order to take a deeper kind of shit.........don't worry in her behaif as she'll like doing all on her poor little ownesome......she might even bo shacking up with the mod. who banned her already..... and a note of advice: if you are into dishing out humiliation get used to girls disappearing for a while....they'll be bqack for more don't fret.

MistressOriette -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 8:00:32 AM)
I think you have way too much free time on your hands. I am not saying that I agree or disagree with you , but there are so many other things in the world to be that passionate about that you could put your heart and soul into. Get over it and go to another website if you unhappy with that one. Better yet, start your own so you can make your own rules !!!!

MamaDomme1 -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 8:38:13 AM)
KaineD, You mention how this tends to happen over and over again..... well, I think there must be something that you are finding facsinating, interesting, or even attractive about the whole situation or you wouldn't be so compelled to go back time and time again. Maybe you should re-evaluate how you are really feeling about it all. Maybe you are finding some hidden pleasure in the scene. Take a long break from that site and see how you feel. Thing about the internet, as has been mentioned several times, you can always go perv a different site if you truly are offended by what you are seeing. And I'm fairly sure that the girls and subs there aren't there under force. There is something they are getting out of it also. Even if they aren't aware of the bigger picture of it all. Good luck~~~

Prinsexx -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 8:43:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth But first provide the link![sm=insane.gif] I agree: a room for humiliation....seems like a place I'd like............[:D]

LaTigresse -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 8:46:47 AM)
Kaine, I just don't get the purpose of your post or what you are hoping to achieve. It is the internet, we all have a choice as to what we view and what we participate in. Except for a few rare cases. Are you trying to get people to beg you for the address to drum up business for them?

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 9:00:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop quote: One of the other subs who has been at the site for a while proceeds to call her fat and ugly, and all sorts of shit. so.....where's the dom thats out of control? or did I miss something? ooooo Greedy, let's go find the mean, mean "Dom" and point and laugh at him...'k?

GreedyTop -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 9:20:51 AM)
sounds fun to me, MP grope

Viridana -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 10:39:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 Girl says she likes humiliation. She gets humiliation. She complains--indicating humiliation is taking place. Turns out she doesn't like humiliation. Wah Wah Wah. The reason you have to be careful about what you wish for is that sometimes....you actually get it. Uhmmmm.... just because someone likes humiliation doesn't mean that they want it from anybody or everybody. Just like (a much emphasized point on this board) that just because someone is a sub doesn't mean that they submit to everybody. There is such a thing as CONSENSUALITY that has to be the apex of all.... or are you implying that consensuality isn't somehow relevant when certain kinks as humiliation are the issue?

MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 10:59:40 AM)
sings "a-hunting we will go, a-hunting we will go, hi-ho-the dary-o, a-hunting we will go I think i smell a wascally dom...i do, i DO smell a wascally dom... gropes Greedy

GreedyTop -> RE: Website with an out of control "Dom" (6/25/2008 11:10:43 AM)
DUCK SEASON!!

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