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metalmiss -> RE: Rape scenes (6/24/2008 10:39:39 AM)
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i'm not sure if you've really considered the in's and out's of all of this.. Many people make mistakes concerned with what they want in this area. Do you mean a rape scene? Or forced sex/resistance play?
The difference.. Resistance play is a forced sex scene involving consensual non-consent. It is one of my biggest loves. Its possible to experiment with resistance play within safe and sane parameters, even with partners whom you know well and it still gives the thrill that comes from being forced.
Actual rape on the other hand, which appears to be what you are asking for, involves a completely different headspace. It is traumatic and potentially damaging to a person both physically and psychologically. i trust and care deeply about my Master, but i would never ask Him to rape me.
i'm not saying this to criticise you in any way, once upon a time i had what i would have described as "rape fantasies" they're quite common in either gender. But there is a huge difference between fantasy and reality with something like this.
If you got your wish and somebody took it upon themselves to rape you.. What happens in the very likely event that things go too far? Or get too much for you? It wouldn't take a lot.. But there are no safe words, no safety net, just incredible psychological trauma.. If you're lucky.
Whether you would argue that its just "play" or not, the concept behind rape play, is an attempt to recreate the real thing on both sides. Including the head space.. and its not nice.. Just my opinion.
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