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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/14/2008 6:35:39 AM

DarkSteven

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ORIGINAL: anguisette22

It's all down to intentions, IMO.

While I'm here, I'm going to open myself up to possible flame (I considered starting a thread on this but chickened out) by asking something... See, I've always had this odd kink to be dominated by a black man, like in a parody of slavery but racially reversed. I'm afraid this might offend, so I've never asked. Thoughts?

There are lots of white women who prefer to date black men, both in and out of the kink world.

It sounds like you have a simple fantasy. Try it and see if it really does trip your trigger.

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/14/2008 7:40:45 AM

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theres lots of peole out there I don't think it should matter to what people want. Thats their preferance and there's no reason they should change. What about white people that only want other white people?

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/14/2008 11:56:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: anguisette22

It's all down to intentions, IMO.

While I'm here, I'm going to open myself up to possible flame (I considered starting a thread on this but chickened out) by asking something... See, I've always had this odd kink to be dominated by a black man, like in a parody of slavery but racially reversed. I'm afraid this might offend, so I've never asked. Thoughts?

Odd? I think it's pretty common.

I see black submissive females wanting to be dominated by white Dom's all the time.

I do not have a PHD, but I suspect that there are some deep seated human emotions at work here.

In neolithic times it was common for one tribe to raid another, killing off the men and stealing the women. A woman's desire to be dominated and "carried off" by a male that she see's as "exotic" could actually be a survival defense mechanism that allows women to cope with such experiences in the past. And while it for the most part is not a life experience today.........the emotion still remains.

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/14/2008 6:48:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: norseman12

Odd? I think it's pretty common.

I'm with norseman on this one....i've seen tons of my white girlfriends clammer and get all weak at the knees at the idea of getting "done" or "dicked down" by a black man and they could careless if its a one night stand or not.

It's not odd its just something you want anguisette22.....and if it what you want....more power to ya and get it girl get it!

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/15/2008 3:02:00 PM

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I dont know, I have seen this crap with black dommes too.

They seek only white men as subs. One that I know of even has a requirement of an oath that "a white man is not a real man, only a black man is)

...... yeah, suuuuuuuure.

I write these people off immediately as racists, which is what they are. Being black is not a "be a racist as you please" card.

Now if it is done in context of a kink, it might be different.

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/15/2008 8:02:25 PM

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Ohhhhh I just think that none of us are in a position to judge or be concerned with other people's desires and fetishes. Just be concerned with your own.

I personally think it's kinda weird that my ex watched porn with chicks with braces who literally looked 14. But hey, he thought it was weird that I put clothespins all over my body when I was drunk and bored. Let's not judge people...

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/16/2008 9:47:53 AM

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Black or white, hispanic or asian, we all belong to ONE race.
The human race, the rest is just preference.
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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/16/2008 11:03:03 AM

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Not ALL black women come with a kids, but a lot of them sure do.

Uh....im thinking that a lot of female subs come with kids....what does race have to do with that?

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RE: A Question for African American s-types - 7/16/2008 12:30:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: norseman12

I see black submissive females wanting to be dominated by white Dom's all the time.

I do not have a PHD, but I suspect that there are some deep seated human emotions at work here.

In neolithic times it was common for one tribe to raid another, killing off the men and stealing the women. A woman's desire to be dominated and "carried off" by a male that she see's as "exotic" could actually be a survival defense mechanism that allows women to cope with such experiences in the past. And while it for the most part is not a life experience today.........the emotion still remains.

The most obvious problem with this explanation is that it's not just women - plenty of male submissives also fantasise about being dominated by a person of another race. I think there are a lot of simpler factors that make this exciting for some people.

My ancestors were almost all from the British Isles, and my Mistress is from southeast Asia. Neither of us was specifically looking for someone from an "exotic" background, but we've discovered that our racial and cultural differences have their advantages. Mistress' country was a European colony just a couple of generations ago, so when I submit to her there's a fun element of role reversal and perhaps from her point of view a mild sense of historical revenge. Normally we don't think too much about our differences, but in the context of a scene they can create between us a sense of distance that seems to whet her sadism and certainly makes things a bit more scary from my perspective. Best of all, we're both relaxed enough to enjoy all this without worrying that doing so makes us into evil racists.

It also helps that her culture isn't quite as squeamish about human suffering, in general, as western ones tend to be. I introduced her to BDSM early in our relationship, and while there were a couple of bumps along the way, the basic idea of inflicting pain on a consenting partner never seemed to bother her at all.

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