DomAviator -> RE: Supreme Court strikes down handgun ban (6/27/2008 10:25:33 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DomAviator Yes it would have been much better to leave him under the impression that guns are toys and that you should play with them cause you really dont get hurt or killed cause you can shake it off and get up just like on the Roadrunner cartoons. The punishment may seem harsh but he knew the rules. There are many ways you could have taught him the right lesson. The method you chose seems scarily bizarre to me whether or not his dad was on board. I'm sure there are kids who would be properly impressed by your lesson, but I know that there are some who would be traumatized by it. quote:
ORIGINAL: DomAviator Meanwhile, I get called by a neigbor who told me that my stepson and several other boys were in the back yard playing with a gun and it "looked very real". Well I went over there and sure enough it was real! It was a fully loaded Glock 40 caliber which belonged to the police officer father of his friend. They picked it up off the kitchen table, took it outside and were playing with it as the officer / father slept, and the school teacher / mother yapped on the phone. Did you call 911 and report this? I know that the police admin in my town would freak out if they heard of such a thing, and the officer in question would lose his badge. quote:
ORIGINAL: DomAviator By my blowing away his favorite toys, he learned that all the kings horses and all the kings men can fix something thats been shot and thats why the rules about guns are to be obeyed. <snip> All four of us agreed on my strict weapons policies - and would rather have a live child with no blood on his hands than a coddled happy one who gets a " time out " for an accidental shooting. Fact is that there were many ways you could have made your point without resorting to the kind of unhinged behavior you exibited. You didn't show him maturity and respect for firearms, you showed him something about destruction and loss. It's not the same thing. You showed him that might equals right, and that his rights and property don't matter unless he's willing to defend them with force. Good on you. On Point 1 - GOOD he should be traumitized by it. He would have been a hell of a lot more traumatized if he killed someone or got shot himself. The idea was to show him that guns are dangerous and Kevin's rules about them must be followed without question or exception. On Point 2 - No I discussed it, heatedly with the father, and refused to allow him to go over to that home where proper weapons control and discipline was not being maintained. Calling 911 would do nothing except get you on the police shit list. There is something called "the thin blue line" and they watch out for their own... The "police admin" would do nothing... For christs sake, in a story I posted to another thread, right here in Houston a Sherrifs deputy ignored inmates pleas for medical help as a man bled to death out of his asshole. In fact, he ridiculed the situation taunting "What do you want me to do get a band aid for his ass?" That deputy was "punished" by being removed from the jail and put out on the steet - which is essentially a promotion. Cops are out to protect and serve other cops, not the public. Thats part of why I own guns, becaus I dont rely on the cops to protect me. Hell during hurricane Katrina many of the the cops who didnt abandon their posts were out looting themselves! On Point 3 - There was nothing "unhinged" about my behavior. The destruction of his toys was a deliberate demonstation of the awesome destructve power of a firearm, intended to reinforce the point that firearms are deadly devices not toys and you never point one at anybody or anything you do not want kiled or destroyed. I did indeed show him "destruction and loss", in this case plastic toys. Better he learn the destructive potential on inanimate plastic, than that he learn it by blowing one of his little friends heads off. As for his "rights and property" - a child has no property. Those toys were bought and paid for by me. Thats why parents can and do take away things.... Children are not "little people" they are not equals, they are young skulls full of mush who must be molded and educated by the parents, and some of those lessons are quite literally matters of life or death. I dont know where the "defend them with force" issue comes in - that was not an option. The shooting of the toys was to demonstrate, exactly WHY I forbid him from touching a gun unless in my presence. Yes, he cried like hell, too bad, he would have cried more had he killed one of his friends and had to go through life as the kid who shot his best friend. I didnt wantonly and sadistically break his prized posessions, I did so as a consequence of his violating a major rule with potentially deadly consequences. He could have avoided this punishment by complying with the rules. He complied thereafter, as we tested him on it, so the lesson got through loud and clear and may very well have saved his life or the life of another child.
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