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The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 10:15:04 AM

MissSepphora1

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I was at a friend's friend's apartment last night, very vanilla. The friend's friend had a friend who was totally interested in me. He is very cute, slightly metro, with dimples just like I like them. He was dancing with me, trying to kiss me, and had his hands all over me. I was enjoying the attention and the playfulness, but that was it. I was just playing with him.
He kept touching my face, and I said, "If you touch me like that again I'm going to lay you out on the floor." This was after I'd already pinned him flat against the wall several time for inappropriate touching.
His response was, "do it". So, I did. I had him pinned down on the floor, and bit him several times. Then I looked at him, and his exact words were, "you can do whatever you want to me".
That was all I needed to hear to make me aroused, and we had an awesome time together.
That was an epiphany moment for me. Anyone else have something like this, even after realizing their role, even years before?

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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 10:48:36 AM

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Oh Hell, YES! I've had a number of similar experiences. In fact this how I hooked up with the right kinds of partners before discovering "the lifestyle". However, it might shock you at times, to discover how aware of things people really are too.

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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 1:25:13 PM

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Even though I am submissive and maso, I am also sadistic. I remember once in a bar some guy was at our table and was being very persistant. He kept grasping my hand in his and rubbing the back of it with his other hand. I told him to stop. I pulled my hand away but he would always grab it back and start up again. His buddy was with my friend so I really didn't feel I could leave (he seemed as obnoxious). Anyway, the guy kept it up even after I warned him I would hurt him if he didn't stop. I ended up caressing his hand in mine, rubbing it over and over just before I yanked one of his fingers backward over the back of his hand in a quick snap.
It is amazing how that sound carries over in a noisy bar.
My sadistic side got a good deal of satisfaction from that.
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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 1:32:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

I was at a friend's friend's apartment last night, very vanilla. The friend's friend had a friend who was totally interested in me. He is very cute, slightly metro, with dimples just like I like them. He was dancing with me, trying to kiss me, and had his hands all over me. I was enjoying the attention and the playfulness, but that was it. I was just playing with him.
He kept touching my face, and I said, "If you touch me like that again I'm going to lay you out on the floor." This was after I'd already pinned him flat against the wall several time for inappropriate touching.
His response was, "do it". So, I did. I had him pinned down on the floor, and bit him several times. Then I looked at him, and his exact words were, "you can do whatever you want to me".
That was all I needed to hear to make me aroused, and we had an awesome time together.
That was an epiphany moment for me. Anyone else have something like this, even after realizing their role, even years before?

O yes, I can relate. Very handsome Dom, first date. Time to say good night...and He wraps His hand in my hair, fisting it. He pulls my head waaaayy back and kisses me deeply.

I was in heaven, he he. No man had ever done that to me before -- now I don't want to be kissed any other way.

Thank for sharing, MissSepphora!

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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 2:27:20 PM

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I fell off my bike once, banging my head to the point of spilled blood.

I remember sitting there thinking, "Damn, that was hot."

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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 3:37:39 PM

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OK - chia - that is just WRONG!!!!!!!

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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/26/2008 3:46:22 PM

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yes, but it fits the thread.

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RE: The moment of confirmation (for me) - 6/27/2008 7:49:40 AM

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I have two moments to relate. One was when I was playing with one of my ex partners. We'd been together over a year and I'd been exploring topping in that time. But this time as I played with him, a warmth came over me, just a general understanding that this was not just me throwing some leather at the dude, but that I HAD him, that I could stop or keep going, that I could take him home and he would submit to me, that I WANTED the submission to continue beyond play and WANTED to have the authority here.

The other was when I simultaneously submitted to my owner AND dominated my sub one evening. We hit that perfect tonal balance- the looks we got from confused people was priceless.

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