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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 4:49:56 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

Thank you, appreciate the answer... and no, not into cutting, drugs or satan worshiping.... lol
 
Don't know about the music... I'm pretty open minded... except for rap, can't do that. I just don't listen to music much unless I'm working on something that I really have to concentrate on. 
 
Jewel


i dont listen to north american music... pop, country, rap, rnb, hip hop...yuck.
i do laugh so much at the idol shows auditions though.  its goth metal...to be more specific its operatic melodic gothic metal.  they use opera's and choirs with metal.  plenty of melodies and also fast guitar.  with the use of odd instruments like flutes.  nightwish's new album has a couple songs with just a flute.





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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 4:57:25 PM   
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I'm neither lars or a dr. frankenstein, but Pygmalion. I've an excellent idea of a woman, but right now I just need to find some marble.

I have my tastes.

first and foremost, being honest and male, physical attraction is a must. Some things can be controlled with a proper diet and exercise routine, but I have to have something I can work with.
secondly, I need someone with a desire to better themselves (this is of course a very subjective term and would depend on the female thinking that me teaching her what I can would indeed be bettering herself). when I do find a lovely little belle that I want to provide for financially, physically, and emotionally, I'll be ecstatic. however, like the rest of my property, I want her to be immaculate. outside of the house, she will be a reflection of myself. I'll need her to have the confidence and grace that my woman should have. with this comes dressing as I would have her dress, walking as I would have her walk, and  speaking as I would have her speak. etiquette is important, but so is wit and intelligence. in some circumstances, she should be able to charm anyone at anytime (and as someone who has been invited to a fair amount of debutantes in my day, charm is something that can definitely be taught), in others, she should be able to intellectually eviscerate someone on any subject that I would be able to (just because she is my slave does not mean she is submissive to anyone else). with this comes the willingness to learn about everything from Austrian Economics, to bach partitas, to Szasz’s critiques of the medical model of mental illness, to Bergman films, to Wagner, to Faulkner, to how to cook everything from a proper fillet mignon wrapped in fatty bacon to snapper grenobloise, to at least one additional language, etc. inside the house, she needs to be as depraved and perverted as me. I won’t expound upon that.

in short, I want my perfect female, and since she, in all likelihood, does not exist, I'll have to make her. granted, this will take a lot of work, but I believe it's the only way I could be in a relationship with a woman and be truly happy. at the very least, it'll make an interesting adaptation of 'my fair lady'.

now I just need to find an attractive female who is interested in becoming this kind of woman. in the mean time, I'm focused on bettering myself and my position so that I can provide for a slave in all the ways she needs to be provided for.


This is pretty cool. And although Master's tastes don't run to Bergman films, He has done a bit of Pygmalion on me.
 
My hair is longer, my clothes and make up different, my shoes very different. I've learned to ride Harleys (on the back) - and know all the different types. I had lost weight before meeting Him, but have since had some cosmetic surgery and work out regularly now. He's even teaching me to rollerblade and appreciate rock music.
 
All this does not negate my earlier post about first fixing me before finding my ideal. I was working on the internal- self image and self knowledge. I was fine on the outside, too. If I didn't have those things together, He never would have been interested in having more and owning me in the first place. It's just that He likes to customize His toys. (You should see His Softail ! )

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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 5:04:59 PM   
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I've seen your profile previously and I must say that Mr. Cuffkinks has done an excellent job. I am jealous, and that is a rare occurance.

I hope I am as fortunate.

< Message edited by variation30 -- 6/26/2008 5:05:27 PM >


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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 5:27:27 PM   
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This Question is primarily for the Single Crowd.

~~Does what you are looking for, what you refuse to settle without, what you require in order to commit, that picture perfect image in your head, Does it really even exist?~~


This sounds damned close to the age old question: If a tree falls in the woods and no ones there to hear it, does it really make a sound?

How exactly would you know if what you are looking for exists if you are single? Doesn't that sort of beg the question?

I had to bottom to my share of frogs....~shrug~

PL

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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 5:54:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

Thank you, appreciate the answer... and no, not into cutting, drugs or satan worshiping.... lol
 
Don't know about the music... I'm pretty open minded... except for rap, can't do that. I just don't listen to music much unless I'm working on something that I really have to concentrate on. 
 
Jewel
 


i dont listen to north american music... pop, country, rap, rnb, hip hop...yuck.
i do laugh so much at the idol shows auditions though.  its goth metal...to be more specific its operatic melodic gothic metal.  they use opera's and choirs with metal.  plenty of melodies and also fast guitar.  with the use of odd instruments like flutes.  nightwish's new album has a couple songs with just a flute.


  http://www.myspace.com/epica  

 
Oh wow.... I love the flute!!! It's so, I don't know, maybe it's just so lonesome sounding, it stirs emotion. Ok, so maybe I'm a little weird... I also LOVE bagpipes. It actually sounds like something I would enjoy... thank you sooo much for sharing with me.
 
Jewel
 
Wanted to add... listened to it... it's awesome... thank you so very much!!
 
also... sorry for the hijack.


< Message edited by ShiftedJewel -- 6/26/2008 6:00:29 PM >


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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 6:43:11 PM   
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check out the rouse flute conceto (first and last movements).


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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 6:48:46 PM   
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~~Does what you are looking for, what you refuse to settle without, what you require in order to commit, that picture perfect image in your head, Does it really even exist?~~


I sure as hell hope so, Steel. Now, finding it and making it mine is another can of worms.....

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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 6:50:49 PM   
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Well i know i exist...it's just a matter of the right dude coming along....and then voila! IT exists!!!  (havent worked out all the kinks yet....)

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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 8:36:23 PM   
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I don't have a picture in my head.  I know what I would like. More importantly, I know what I would not like. I don't mean that in a dramatic way because that would be stating the obvious. I mean in a basic compatibility way.   There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. I have usually been able to have whom I wanted. Somebody around here has made the statement be careful what you wish for; you just might get it.  I did. It was never what I needed.  I have no regrets and it was all educational. However, over this last year so many changes have occured that I no longer look for what I did prior to.

Now, if someone is out there for me then splendid and if not then its going to be ok. I'm an odd bird so it goes with the territory. 

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RE: For those that are Looking ... Does it really exist? - 6/26/2008 8:46:28 PM   
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I've had some offers, tried a few times, but have yet to find the "One".
My friends tell me I should find the "Two" or better yet the "Three", but deep down inside I only really want one.
But, my life is good, so I will keep on looking.  Make some friends as I do.

So to answer your question..yes, I believe it exists

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