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wwwkevinww -> RE: A Compartimentalized Erotic Identity? (6/28/2008 3:19:29 AM)
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What happens if your work life meets your social life meets your family life.
Remember the sitcom with Sienfield with George in a similiar situation, crying about his world's were colliding. He didn't want his GF knowing his family and friends that well.......or something along those lines......how he had different developed personae's with each of them.....
Most of the time people think they are acting rationally but in reality most people aren't. ;0 Everyone is crazy but just makes a good showing of keeping it together. If this wasn't the case, then why isn't their a class that teaches normal psychology? Most people are taught what is normal all their lives, and they have to either abide by it or suffer the consequences. Its almost like follow these unwritten rules/customs (which shows a lack of real freedom because your forced to follow them), or be locked up/killed.
So yea, you think I'm normal. I'm just pretending. ;0 just like you......you know the rules, follow them and act "normal" or suffer the consequences.....
Of course normal differs depending on what "culture" your dealing with.....most intelligent people at one point in time struggle living in the cultural norm. For Americans, who love their freedom, they are shackled in conformity......living in the cultural norm is just one form the shackles takes. They say that extreme intelligence/genius often comes with a cost.......knowing your just pretending to be sane.... ;0
so yea, your talking about playing in fantasies you never want to do, sure, that isn't hard to understand......you suspend disbelief, get off on the fantasy of it, ignore the fact it is pretty gross from a "cultural norm" POV, and eventually you compartmentalize this entire thought process and dump it, etc....
Piercing and what not is erotic because it shows a willingness for pain and what not, and its kind of permanent....(scarring/permanent piercing).....
I advice people against it if asked my opinion, even if it is a turn on, and I would never want any of my submissives to do something so destructive.....
Its a turn on in a negative way, just like porn stars are. I would never want someone I cared about to be flaunting around showing their "goods".
Then again, I would never date a porn star or a stripper.
So yea, easy to understand.....I might seem to be thinking one thing, but that isn't the reality on how I really feel. If you asked me if piercing was hot, I'd be like yea, people are stupid, so yea, its erotic but dumb. Having women put a huge hoop in the nose and be lead around with it is kind of erotic too........wonder if I can get that to be a new fad.....obviously I'm against piercing and wish the younger generation found a more positive way to rebel....
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