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rootbeerturtle -> Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 1:15:01 PM)

Hello All,

my Girlfriend only allows me to cum on her command and i am denied for an extended amount of time with a chastity device. So when She wants to make love to me i am so sensitive that i dont last very long before having an orgasm. My questions are how can this be countered? How can i be denied for a period of time and still last long enough for Her to use me without cuming because i am so horny? Has anyone else experience this?

Thank You have a good day




candystripper -> RE: Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 1:28:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: rootbeerturtle

Hello All,

my Girlfriend only allows me to cum on her command and i am denied for an extended amount of time with a chastity device. So when She wants to make love to me i am so sensitive that i dont last very long before having an orgasm. My questions are how can this be countered? How can i be denied for a period of time and still last long enough for Her to use me without cuming because i am so horny? Has anyone else experience this?

Thank You have a good day


rootbeerturtle, you're only 22 years old.  What you describe is perfectly normal for your age.  In all likelihood you will gain more control and be able to last longer once you reach your 30's or 40's.
 
If this really bothers you or your Domme, make an appointment to see a urologist, who has expertise in treating men for premature ejactulation.  I don't know whether there are any effective treatments available, but a urologist would know.
 
Best wishes,
 
candystripper




xxblushesxx -> RE: Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 1:35:58 PM)

Maybe she could 'milk' you? I don't know if it would help with the 'hit and run' so to speak, but at least you wouldn't be all backed up.

Or she could allow you to masturbate once in a while. It's quite normal, ya know.




rootbeerturtle -> RE: Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 1:36:43 PM)

well the reason why i am so sensitive is due to the denial and teasing...




chiaThePet -> RE: Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 2:20:42 PM)

Well, what I find works for me is, ah ah ahhhhhhhhhhh, crap.

Nevermind.

chia* (the pet)




batshalom -> RE: Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 2:33:11 PM)

If it is an issue with you, then her continuing with the teasing and denial could well make you last a good long time. Psychologically and emotionally speaking, you could well become numb to it, bored with it, and cease to see the point of it, especially if the issue of staying power is her issue and not necessarily yours. You see what I'm saying? (I love denial and hard teasing, but I am speaking from experience here.)




CruelDesires -> RE: Have questions on tease and denial (6/26/2008 4:38:05 PM)

Try a cock ring. Ask her to allow you to experiment with different sized rings made from different materials to help you desensitize your "package". [:D]

CD




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