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LilWhiteWolf -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (11/12/2005 8:46:11 PM)

when i ask for a spanking, i am told i am trying to top from the bottom. i don't like very very hard spankings but i do love to be spanked. i crave it and now i really want one. i like Daddy Doms too and love the guidance.
i am not sure what kind of sub i am though. i am just me



nephandi -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (11/13/2005 3:04:12 AM)

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Have you tried local groups and munches? One of my skills is that I'm able to do intense pain play without unacceptable damage. Because of this reputation, I'm contacted by the pain players without having to seek them out.


Ah now i wish i went for BDSM mettings in USA, i feel that you would have been a real interesting person to meet JohnWarren. [:D]

As for the topic at hand, unless it is part of a play roleplaying senario, the naughty student or rude sosity lady, i am not bratty, but i do like painplay, usualy for the submissive way it makes me feel, but somthimes also for itself. i think that the best part of painplay is not pain itself, but being comforted afterwards, that closeness is somthing i realy enyoy. But somtimes a hard spanking just for fun is werry nice, but yes, i have met fewer girl submissives that just say i need a spanking than boy ones, but it waries.



JohnWarren -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (11/13/2005 6:13:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: nephandi

Ah now i wish i went for BDSM mettings in USA, i feel that you would have been a real interesting person to meet JohnWarren. [:D]

As for the topic at hand, unless it is part of a play roleplaying senario, the naughty student or rude sosity lady, i am not bratty, but i do like painplay, usualy for the submissive way it makes me feel, but somthimes also for itself. i think that the best part of painplay is not pain itself, but being comforted afterwards, that closeness is somthing i realy enyoy. But somtimes a hard spanking just for fun is werry nice, but yes, i have met fewer girl submissives that just say i need a spanking than boy ones, but it waries.


Aftercare is always part of my negotiations. My preference is cuddle time... well, actually my preference is a sandwich cuddle with Libby and me as the "bread." However, a number of times I've been told "just give me a blanket, personal space and leave me alone. I'll honor that but I do find that it leaves me with "cuddle deprived."

I like your approach since I find nonconsensual bratting to be annoying, but in the context of a role play, quite a lot of fun. It's also a neat way to get constant feedback in a high intensity scene so I know my partner is still enjoying herself. (Think of it as a "Green.")




MastersBabieGirl -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (11/21/2005 1:11:36 PM)

i love being spanked [:)]



badboy884 -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (3/4/2006 3:53:20 PM)

I enjoy the ritual and the humiliation of a good spanking.

Having my clothing stripped off for the spanking puts me
in the psychological role of complete submission.

I enjoy the progression beginning wih a scolding then
having my tousers taken down despite my feined resistance.
I am embarrassed with my underpants exposed.

I am turned over a knee with my feet off the floor and
then receive a few "warm up" spanks.

The real spanking begins after my underpants are pulled
down.

This is usually followed by "corner time"

I may receive a warm up



MHOO314 -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (3/4/2006 4:41:19 PM)

Do a search in your own state, there are two huge spanking groups, one in Austin and one in Dallas.



Hissweetshiv -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (3/6/2006 11:22:24 AM)

~marches up and down singing... ~
Spanking... Spanks and paddling... what KIND of SUB likes spanks and paddling....
fat subs ... skinny subs... subs who climb on rocks...
tall subs...short subs... even subs in chains and locks...

lol sorry i couldn't resist

I adore a good spanking, the kind that has me squirming by the end, struggling to override my body's instinct to roll/ crawl away from the pain. The best one i've experienced so far was with a lovely paddle... wood on one side and fur on the other for that mixture of sensations. Unpredictable - lovely! There are indeed several spanking groups in Texas, and a few of them have yahoo groups. I wish you luck!



sweetpettjenny -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (3/6/2006 3:37:05 PM)

For me i am a masochist , yes i love when Master spanks or paddles or flogs or anything short of killing me feels good. But i love him so it is easy for me to love his hand on me.



champagnewishes -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (3/8/2006 11:14:35 AM)

I thrive on a good spanking....but i would no more say in my profile

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tonypad
"I need a daddy" or "I need strict guidance" rather than bluntly say "I need a spanking".


I thrive on a good spanking not because i enjoy the pain nor for reasons that have anything to do with feelings for the One inflicting it.

I thrive on a good spanking as a matter of having learned to allow my mind to ride the path that is provided when pain is introduced rather than concentrating on the physical of it all.



faithNZ -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (3/8/2006 5:49:06 PM)

Damn, now I want a spanking!



Despot -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/10/2006 12:41:54 PM)

Jackie,
I have heard that before. Subs insisting they want it that hard. Until it begins and then they complain that is not what they meant. Of course it is too late by then. Where are you from? Perhaps I can pay you a visit and give you what you are looking for.



stockingluvr54 -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/10/2006 9:41:12 PM)

I like spankings alot...giving and receiving. my biggest problem giving them is I'm a gentle man and lean towards sub and the trying to "pretend" or "play" like I'm mad just about makes me crack up out loud and if my partner ever looked back up at me during this..she'd see me holding in my laughter as I'm trying to say in a stern voice "you're a naughty little girl!"  Roleplayer...I'm not but I do enjoy spankings.......giving or getting!!!!



irishbynature -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/11/2006 3:08:10 AM)

To this day, I still haven't figured out why I like spanking (lol). I'm not into pain and I don't like a hard spanking---I think it makes me feel as if I've completely surrendered all control...and the turn on is in the slight sting of being reminded of that loss of control.
Warmly,
Irishbynature
PS. As far as a "Daddy Dom"...(referring to the OP), not all submissives, including myself are into that aspect. It depends on the dynamic of the Dom/sub.



SusanofO -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/11/2006 3:14:59 AM)

I didn't think there were any submisives who didn't like a spanking or a paddling - so I don't understand the question; no comprendez....? I am teasing [:D]

As far as asking for one -  I usually just asked sweetly for one - my request was usually granted - perhaps not immediately but within a day or two. Of course, I am one of the "good girls" who rarely misbehaves, haha (I am, truly)

-Susan



ceri -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/11/2006 4:50:04 PM)

I love being spanked, and to feel Sirs hand on you is something else entirely. To have His hand on you as you squeal and squirm is beyond excitement and takes you to whole new realms. A spoon as a paddle is my personal favourite, a hard wooden spoon.

Ohhh... I want one right now



mymasterssub69 -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/12/2006 3:49:04 AM)

Spanking for me stems from childhood punishment dolled out by my parents ...not saying they abused me but getting spanked by my parents was the norm back then. i enjoy being spanked by my Sir especially when he uses his bare hands ....the harder the better



hisforever -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/12/2006 8:31:50 AM)

I dont know of any sub/slave that doesnt like a good spanking LOL sure, some dont like hard painful spankings!  I am the in between.  Too light and whats the point, too hard and I cry my eyes out (good punishment my Dom has found unfortunetly) Like the others, I too now want one and He wont be home until friday evening LOLOL



LiliesDoGrow -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/12/2006 9:03:11 AM)

I've never met a female cat that didn't like to be spanked. Consensually of course. They purr and go crazy usually. If not, they would let ya know soon enough with one clawed swipe.

Not meaning to beat or hurt her in any way! Hard pats. Dogs like to be "patted" hard too.

Makes one think why this is?

In response to the OP, for me spanking is a means to an end. Pardon the pun. Lots of emotional factors need to be in place for me. Not just sceneing or sessioning. Not just any mans hands pounding on me. But more or less a show of authority by someone I adore. Just makes me melt. If that makes sense?

Then again, I spank cats. What sense would I have?





SexyRed -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/12/2006 9:39:23 AM)

hmmmm..what kind of sub wants a spanking? well, the kind that is sitting here, job hunting after being downsized two weeks ago and who is very frustrated right now about that.

as for asking for one, I would hope to be with someone who liked spanking me as much as I adore the ritual of spanking so that I don't have to ask!



heartfeltsub -> RE: What kind of sub wants a Spanking/Paddling? (7/12/2006 9:43:27 AM)

i feel like the only sub on the planet at the moment who doesn't like spankings. i like floggings, needles, whips and all that, and i get spanked, i just don't like it.



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