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I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 7:52:22 AM   
suckyourtoes


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Status: offline 		Why is it so difficcult for me to find a dom who will make me lick her feet? Am I living in the wrong part of the country? Are women in Ohio too repressed sexually?
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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 7:56:50 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		Are you looking for just foot worship?  I love having my feet licked, but if that's the only note someone sings, there isn't enough there.  I'm not interested in fetish alone, but submission and who someone is as a whole.  What other interests do you have?

I just looked at your profile.  For me, it works against you.   Saying more about who you are will make you more accessible.

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 8:01:00 AM   
suckyourtoes


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Status: offline 		I am open minded, willing to try different things. I would say I am sexually submissive. I love to please a woman sexually. I'm not into pain though. Any advice?

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 8:03:07 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		Um.  I just gave you advice.  Here's some more, though.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1958926/tm.htm

Mss

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 8:07:05 AM   
suckyourtoes


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Status: offline 		What do you mean "who you are"? Do you mean personal stuff like what I do for a living or what I am willing to do sexually? What is in my profile that works against me?

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 9:32:14 AM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		I think the reason you have a problem is that very few women want to be -just- a pair of feet for you to worship, and if they do, they're trying to sell you something.

That may not be what you're trying to give them, but it totally comes off like you want one thing and you don't care how you get it or who gives it to you.  That makes a Dominant a prop for your fetishes, and they generally don't like that.  See what I mean?

DV's Fox

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 9:56:31 AM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		I'm not in Ohio, and I'm not really sexually repressed... I just can't stand it when someone puts their tongue on my feet! Massage my feet all day long, that's awesome... but do NOT try to suck my toes, the end result could be pretty ugly.
 
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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 12:22:04 PM   
MsValentine


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Status: offline 		It really will not do your cause any good to be implying that all Ohio women are sexually repressed. Receiving foot worship is a specialised fetish and not all Dommes are that turned on by it. Doesn't do anything for me at all.

If your attempts at getting your fantasies met are not working, you will have to alter something in your strategy.

Be more informative about the other bdsm things you may like. Your profile does sound as though your are looking for sexual props not a meeting of mutual pleasure.

Be prepared to compromise in some way. Offer a brilliant foot massage and pampering as well perhaps?

Maybe consider a professional dominant?

Sell yourself to prospective partner in the most alluring way. Imagine why a lady might and to spend time with you getting her feet licked. Would you want to meet up with a man just for that if you were in her shoes?

I think in all honesty you will have a hard time as you are mostly keen on just a couple of things which makes matching you harder. The things you like, are not the kinds of things which tend to get a woman very turned on in isolation.

I wish I could be more helpful but at least I give you my honest opinion and the opinion of a woman who has dealt with many sub men in many different situations.

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 12:27:41 PM   
Lynnxz


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsValentine

Maybe consider a professional dominant?



She's right... if this is all you can offer a domme, then you might want to go the pro route.


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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 2:01:16 PM   
AtlantaMistress


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Status: offline 		If you want to check out some great videos - my boy and I met through collarme. he has a foot/shoe fetish and loves to be trampled. Now we make video clips sharing our lives with those of you out there still looking.

Mistress Sandy

http://clips4ale.com/store/20046

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 9:10:19 PM   
AcademyForSlaves


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Status: offline 		Hmm you shouldn't have any trouble finding a woman who wants her feet worshipped. I absolutely LOVE having my feet licked, kissed, massaged, so when guys come to me telling me they want to do that to my feet I let them go at it!! Yummy.

Hope you find her. :)

Academy Assistant Mistress
http://www.academyforslaves.com/femdom-pictures.html

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/27/2008 10:58:53 PM   
undergroundsea


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ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress
http://clips4sale.com/store/20046


Use this fixed link instead and you will see some pretty feet ;-)

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/28/2008 8:53:47 AM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Almost every dominant woman I have ever known has loved to have her feet worshipped.  Maybe you should go to a footnight.com party.  You might make a connection with a few of the ladies.  It has been known to happen.

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/28/2008 9:07:16 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I love having My feet worshiped, but if that was all a sub ever did for Me, I'd get bored really fast.  That's coming from someone who can't get absolutely lost in a good foot job!  To Me, it can be a great bit of foreplay, but that means that I usually don't let anyone get too far on My feet that I'm not intimate with.


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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/28/2008 9:26:44 AM   
bipolarber


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Status: offline 		I share your fetish, and have been lucky enough to find plenty of Dommes who enjoy this kind of attention, but it is one of many.

What kind of things should you put in your profile? Well, the short answer to that is: whatever you are comfortable telling someone, whom you haven't met, about. Feel free to look over my profile, if you want an example. It states my situation, what I'm looking for, what some of my desires are like, and especially, what some of the things are that I'm interested in outside of the bedroom.

Foot play is nice... but so is bondage.
So is doing my Domme's laundry, or dishes.
Or making coffee.
Carrying her bags when travelling with her is great, because I get to hang back a couple of steps, and watch her walk.
Being whipped by a Domme is heaven!
But so is vaccumming her house for her, while she is on her computer.
Or walking her dogs with her.
I especially like it when we're out to dinner, with one of her friends, and they are chatting away, and I'm sitting there, listening to their conversation, staying silent.

You're a foot fetishist. That's great. But you need to be more, if you're going to hold someone's attention for more than 15 minutes. THAT'S what needs to be in your profile, if you want to have a relationship with a Domme.

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/28/2008 9:34:03 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		There has to be more to someone than a single dimension. If you are looking to worship someone's feet, then thats great. I enjoy it, on occasion. ON OCCASION, but if I had it constantly it would likely become so run of the mill that it would lose its allure. I like bondage, I am a sadist, but it all has to be in moderation to remain interesting. I havent read your profile, but I know that when I was looking, I wanted to see what people were like in a realistic light as wel as their kink side. Hobbies, interests, things they enjoy outside of the lifestyle rounds them out when put in with what they enjoy inside, and what they expect from and offer to a partner.
Hope that helps

DV


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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/28/2008 9:49:13 AM   
bipolarber


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Status: offline 		Even the "Cookie Monster" broadened his horizions recently, eating more fruit and veggies along with his obsession for cookies. They are "sometimes food" while the healthy stuff is "anytime food."  You should look at your foot fetish as a "sometimes fetish"... and paying attention to the nice dominant lady, and doing what she says, fulfilling her needs and wants, as an "anytime fetish."

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/28/2008 10:52:37 AM   
subtype13


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quote:

ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

quote:

ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress
http://clips4sale.com/store/20046


Use this fixed link instead and you will see some pretty feet ;-)

Cheers,

Sea


Thank you Sea! As many of you know - Mistress Sandy and I are a REAL couple - for many years, I fantasized about my foot/shoe fetish and being trampled. Now I get my dreams come true, and we decided to do video clips to share with the others that are in that place I used to be. Whenever we get a message thanking us for a great clip, it makes all the work that goes into it worthwhile...yes, the play is always fun, but the techy stuff (editing, rendering, keeping up with the store) is WORK - and its not like we can quit our day jobs on the 60% we make from the $7-10 clips - then again, as a Pro Domme who loves what I she does -she has no intention of ever quitting her day job! LOL

We met on collarme, and hope to inspire others as a "success story"  - so don't give up!

BTW - She does have beautiful feet :)

brian

http://clips4sale.com/store/20046

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/29/2008 6:04:50 AM   
thetammyjo


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ORIGINAL: suckyourtoes

I am open minded, willing to try different things. I would say I am sexually submissive. I love to please a woman sexually. I'm not into pain though. Any advice?


And this unfortunately is where you start to be like the vast majority of men who say that they are submissive -- it's about the sex really.

There's nothing wrong with that but I strongly suspect most men who want to do primarily the sexual aspects of BDSM could get that itch scratched in a primarily vanilla relationship. I'm hard pressed to imagine that all vanilla women hate the idea of being pleased sexually by their partner.

Another thought is why limit yourself to the sub role if this is about sex? Why not be the dom who says "Give me that foot, bitch" to your own submissive or "Open up, I'm going down on you woman."\

My point is two fold.

First, what you want isn't unique so you have to go above and beyond to get noticed.

Second, sub doesn't equal pleasing your partner sexually or yourself sexually -- they can be done in multiple roles and multiple ways.

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RE: I want to be a foot slave. - 6/29/2008 10:19:11 AM   
Coupleofwhats


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Status: offline 		It sounds like you want a living fetish object, rather than a Mistress. Worshipping feet excites YOU. What are you prepared to do for HER?

And the fact that you lay out a fantasy of having TWO women (who have to "take turns") makes the whole thing sound like you're the one in control and being catered to.

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