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Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship?


Yes - I am in such a relationship now
  64% (68)
No - But I am just out of one recently
  7% (8)
No - It's been less than six months though
  4% (5)
No - It's been six months to a year
  1% (2)
No - And it's been between one and two years
  3% (4)
No - And it's been two to five years
  4% (5)
No - It's been more than five years
  0% (1)
I've never been in a real time situation - Want to though
  6% (7)
I've never been in a real time situation - And I don't think I want to
  1% (2)
Anarchy! - I don't like these choices!
  2% (3)


Total Votes : 105
(last vote on : 7/3/2008 5:33:27 PM)
(Poll will run till: -- )


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DarkVictory -> Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 8:27:06 PM)

Are you currently in a real-life, real-time, real-world, you actually touch the other person from time to time relationship that in your mind is fully or predominantly a Master/slave or Dominant/submissive in nature?  If not, how long has it been since you have?




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 8:31:26 PM)

you forgot....

No - Nobody wants a Ds or Ms relationship with sub if theres no sex involved.






beargonewild -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 8:32:20 PM)

Been seriously seeing someone for almost a year and we're gradually incorporating more and more of the d/s aspect into our relationship. In many ways, he is my equal yet in many ways he is also Sir. 




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 8:34:27 PM)

ya need an anniversary party 




beargonewild -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 8:42:31 PM)

We will be celebrating at Pride in Sudbury next month! Sir has a surprise planned and won't tell me what it is!




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 8:59:26 PM)

sudbury...ugh...too far.

surprise? oh oh...hope he's still male! [8|]




Daddysredhead -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 9:17:47 PM)

Congrats to you both, bear!  *warm fuzzies*  [sm=cute.gif]




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 9:22:19 PM)

No. I'm not in aD/s or M/s relationship. Because I do not want a D/s or M/s relationship. I am however in a kinky commited relationship, but you didn't ask that. You asked how many are in a D/s or M/s.

It's been about 8 years since I was in a D/s relationship.




slaveluci -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 9:24:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkVictory
Are you currently in a real-life, real-time, real-world, you actually touch the other person from time to time relationship that in your mind is fully or predominantly a Master/slave or Dominant/submissive in nature? 

Yes, I am.  We met here on CM, have been together well over two years, have lived together nearly one year, and have been married almost two months now       [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/hearts.gif[/image]    [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/hyper.gif[/image]     [image]http://www.collarchat.com/upfiles/smiley/yahoo.gif[/image]

Yeah, it's great..................luci




Lynnxz -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/28/2008 9:27:53 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

you forgot....

No - Nobody wants a Ds or Ms relationship with sub if theres no sex involved.





There are a few! I'm lucky enough to find C, who puts up with my sexlessness. :D




corsetgirl -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 12:23:11 AM)

No, I have not even been owned let alone being involved in a D's or M's relationship so I guess I could say that I am still a work in progress.




camille65 -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 1:44:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkVictory

Are you currently in a real-life, real-time, real-world, you actually touch the other person from time to time relationship that in your mind is fully or predominantly a Master/slave or Dominant/submissive in nature?  If not, how long has it been since you have?


Mmmm yes. Going on over 8 years. We are not day to day in physical proximity but we do see each other.

Exactly two weeks from now I will be getting ready to fly down to him again.
Yay yay.
Happy happy.
Joy joy.




ServingGirrl -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 1:50:31 AM)

Hi all.... i'm in a full time, real life relationship with my Mistress and i see Her - or at the very least speak with Her - every day.   W/we've been together for over a year, with many more years to come.

Since Mistress is straight and i'm not, many people assume the lack of intimacy between us must cause problems.   It doesn't but, with Her kind permission, i'm on here seeking another woman for a real life relationship so those needs are satisfied.   If Mistress had not suggested it and given permission for me to look though, things would have carried on just as happily for us, as it is my submission to Her which gives me pleasure and not sex, so the lack of sex between us is no barrier.

Blessings everyone




christine1 -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 6:06:49 AM)

right now we are in a D/s relationship, it is His wish to have it turn into a M/s married relationship.  at the end of the summer i will be moving to MD so it's no longer long distance.




Sundowner -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 6:11:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

you forgot....

No - Nobody wants a Ds or Ms relationship with sub if theres no sex involved.




Not so dear faery! Definitely not so. You are so, so wrong!

I have both sorts (currently) and they are both, in their different ways, extraordinarily rewarding.

Think "being friends" not "being lovers". Then think how wonderfully close a friendship can be if it includes bdsm play as well! To have a friend who trusts you to, wants you to, tie her up and beat her! To hold her close after (during) play and know what it is you've shared! Sheesh - how close is that!  [sm=smile.gif]

I'd say that on a scaled basis, where acquaintance is 1, friend is 2, close friend is 3 and lover is 4, that a bdsm friend is firmly a 4 too. Different dynamics; something to treasure highly. 




Lumus -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 6:43:39 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: beargonewild

We will be celebrating at Pride in Sudbury next month! Sir has a surprise planned and won't tell me what it is!


Oh, sure.  Don't invite us.

*goes over to the corner to sulk all Dom-like*





colouredin -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 7:01:56 AM)

blummin heck 65% are, oh well i always like being differant




kiwisub12 -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 7:20:26 AM)

24/7 D/s relationship for 2 1/2 years and loving it.

congrats to you christine - i hope you will be as happy as i am [:D]

and yeh!!! for you Sundowner for being able to accept and rejoice in a "different" relationship (sexless).  What a great thing to do for a friend.




colouredin -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 7:24:36 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12
and yeh!!! for you Sundowner for being able to accept and rejoice in a "different" relationship (sexless).  What a great thing to do for a friend.


Im thinking that its not totally selfless hun




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Are you currently in a real-time real-life D/s or M/s relationship? (6/29/2008 7:49:54 AM)

why do you want to know? are you datamining for the government?

i'm in 2 D/s relationships ...and that's all you need to know




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