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KEMDUBB21 -> $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:30:25 PM)

i recently had a domme say that since i would not pay from somewhere between $200-$1000 tribute that she would put me on some kind of "wall of shame" i am new to the lifestyle so i could be wrong but am i crazy for thinking that this is too much considering i have never talked to this girl before? I asked how much she was looking for and she never answered, and when i offered a small amount to start things off she said i insulted all dommes and to fuck off am i right or wrong here i dont get it because this girl ticked me off pretty good.




Lynnxz -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:32:26 PM)

Well, need more details...

Were you actually meeting with her, or was she just wanting tribute via paypal?

If it was a face to face thing, I'd say 200-300 is pretty average.

**Edited to add- don't be an ass about tributes if they are a pro domme. They are doing this professionally. When they say 200, and you say 20.... it's never going to work out well for you.**




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:34:44 PM)

She was not a pro i do not believe, and it was only for online...




chiaThePet -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:35:56 PM)

Yep, saw your name on the wall of shame plain as day.

You fucked up dude.

Nothing for you.

Next.

chia* (the pet)




DreamyLadySnow -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:37:22 PM)

Why would pay anything to a complete stranger on the internet?

LS




cuddlemesoft -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:37:45 PM)

LOL..are you serious? You started a post for this? It seems pretty simple. I would say that dealing with a Domme would be like any service oriented profession. If you can't negotiate a fee and know what you are getting in return without being told to fuck off I would suggest you go elsewhere.




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:38:21 PM)

haha hey man maybe i fucked up maybe i didnt but its normal to just dish out "$1000s of dollars from my subs" when you have never met the girl and she never said she was a pro? if this is a normal thing and other people just hand it away for nothing then i guess i was wrong lol idk but it just seems weird to me




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:39:58 PM)

Yeah see this is why I was asking because i have never done anything like tributing or any of that stuff I figured that wasnt really normal




DiurnalVampire -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:45:13 PM)

And you believe that she actually gets that srt of money over a threat to have your name added to some online wall of shame?
Poor thing, you might never be able to get with another online tribute seeking Domme again!
Honestly, she was yanking your chain because you are new to the lifestyle. I am sure there really is a wall of shame somewhere... and she can add your CM nick to it if she wishes. Anyone who checks there to see whether or not you'd make a worthwhle sub later in life isnt someone you need to be bothered with anyway.
Pros will ask for tribute (since they cant ask to be outright paid), con artists and scammers will ask for tribute as well. The difference being Pros are doing this as a job, and will deliver some sort of service for the money. Scammers will take the money and run. Online only you would be hard pressed to find a pro worth paying that sort of money to. Hell, even face to face youd be hard pressed to find someone who demands $1000 right off. Pros know their business, they arent going to make their prices so extravagent that you wont want to bother with them.
If it smells hinky, just walk away. There are reasons, after all, that your mind puts up those red flags. Trust your gut. You are new, that doesnt mean you are clueless after all.

DV




Lynnxz -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:48:38 PM)

Only for online? Hells noo... even the girls that just do online stuff I don't think would demand that much...

Go find a pro that will  meet realtime, money better spent.




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:49:48 PM)

Thank you DiurnalVampire, I really do appreciate it. I figured it was not a normal thing. I would not even pay Kiera Knightly to talk to me online for that kind of money. The way it was said to me was like it was expected like a normal thing. If that were to turn out true, I would have backed out of this lifestyle a lot earlier than I would have wanted to!




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:58:32 PM)

Again, thank y'all for taking the time to read my post. Looking back on it i feel like a moron haha seeing as how the profile reads basically spoil spoil money princess money... I was thinking with the wrong head for a little bit and feel a little ashamed [&o] ... but hey we learn and move on right?




chiaThePet -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 10:59:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KEMDUBB21

haha hey man maybe i fucked up maybe i didnt but its normal to just dish out "$1000s of dollars from my subs" when you have never met the girl and she never said she was a pro? if this is a normal thing and other people just hand it away for nothing then i guess i was wrong lol idk but it just seems weird to me


[sm=writing.gif] I'll take Rhodes Scholars for $1000 Alec.

chia* (the pet)




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 11:01:51 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: KEMDUBB21

haha hey man maybe i fucked up maybe i didnt but its normal to just dish out "$1000s of dollars from my subs" when you have never met the girl and she never said she was a pro? if this is a normal thing and other people just hand it away for nothing then i guess i was wrong lol idk but it just seems weird to me


[sm=writing.gif] I'll take Rhodes Scholars for $1000 Alec.

chia* (the pet)





......19 year old kid does not get it lol but hey whatever comes at me i deserve it for my lack of judgment haha




Leatherist -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 11:04:29 PM)

Tell her you will mail it to her in "black money"
 
That is, inked over with a special ink so no postal inspctor will realize what it is if they look.. But that you will send her FIVE thousand dollars in twenty dollar bills. But she must send you five hundred dollars cash to cover the cost of the ink and remover-because they are special-and very expensive.




KEMDUBB21 -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 11:05:31 PM)

lol @ Leatherist




chiaThePet -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 11:14:13 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KEMDUBB21





......19 year old kid does not get it lol but hey whatever comes at me i deserve it for my lack of judgment haha


Good boy for keeping it on the bright side.

You're young, lots to learn.

If it sounds like a stupid human trick, it more than likely is.

Walk softly and carry a big schtick. (if you catch my drift)

chia* (the pet)




MrRodgers -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/28/2008 11:15:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KEMDUBB21

She was not a pro i do not believe, and it was only for online...


May I interject ?

This woman and those like her are whores...the Internet is just their new street corner.

A few words of advice...NEVER send ANY money to ANY stranger on the Internet.




MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/29/2008 4:49:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRodgers

May I interject ?

This woman and those like her are whores..


How do you know it was a woman?  I am convinced most these scammers are other men.




TNstepsout -> RE: $1000?!?! (6/29/2008 5:21:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsCfromMelbourne

quote:

ORIGINAL: MrRodgers

May I interject ?

This woman and those like her are whores..


How do you know it was a woman?  I am convinced most these scammers are other men.



Me too.




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