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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/27/2008 10:52:06 PM

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 1:36:01 AM

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when we go to breakfast in a rush, sans shower, no primping and shaving - just washing our faces and brushing teeth and she sits across from me in the early sun...and stretches and pulls her hair back, her arms up...oh me oh my...the five-O'Clock shadow revealed, the pattern of the black stubble, a cat eye dotted on white skin ...her underarms...have to say that of the senses, smell has the longest and most powerful memory, and i am reminded again that she is a woman and not a little girl and in this moment i want her...deeply...to be close to her...before the shower steals the woman - this urge so primitive and powerful that i am beside myself and lose all appetite for food...she too knows that i love her as she is...true intimacy follows when she can be herself...which leads often to the other trigger

when i am kneeling and pleasing...ok admit teasing... with my mouth and lips and tongue and chin and she is watching....not lost in some closed eyed dream i can never know...but watching the dance of my lips and tongue...purpose driven and unashamed...all animal sounds and air that i know so well and understand clearly... and then she yanks me away to prolong and build ...a twist of hair in one hand...and looks in my eyes...and speaks with them before feeding me again

and with this look, and in this beat, i dream that i am uniquely trusted, and needed, and useful...

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 5:58:35 AM

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I love when we are doing vanilla tasks and I ask what we are doing later, and he comes in close, and growls that we will be doing whatever he decides (although it is more graphic sometimes). I also love when we are out in public and he guides me where he wants me to go with his hand on the small of my back. Subtle reminders of who is in control just get me going.

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 9:43:50 AM

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Ah! Love this thread... I miss my Sir =(

Hmm.

Hair pulling definately, being led by the wrist, being told to Stay/Wait, come here, and that Look when someone calls me by name, and ... I cant explain Why, but the few times I've been sitting between my dominant friends or Sir, and being pet/caressed along the back of my head with his fingers in my hair.. mmmm

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 10:10:48 AM

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The completely surprising slap or sharp pain when doing something completely different.
A hand around my neck. Actually, anything around my neck besides my necklace (I will go crazy without something around my neck, necklaces are a must for me).

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 8:56:45 PM

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I can't believe nobody mentioned a gag! I thought for sure it would have been covered by now!

God, I felt myself slip immediately into sub-space when a friend of mine had me try on a new pony bridle in front of her bf. The leather straps were all good and fine, but the minute that bit hit my mouth I was flat-lining. And it wasn't even buckled on all the way! Gags do it for me totally and every time in or out of a scene. I didn't even have the good grace to be embarrassed in front of her bf who I barely knew at the time! To me any kind of gag overwhelmingly embodies the control that a dom can wield, no matter how it's used or what prompts its use...

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 9:11:54 PM

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like DesFlip says..but form my point of view when I bite her neck or earlobe....and her face really goes blank...while her breathing deepens and she arches her back into me...and yea she forgets whatever she was talking about..and I'm to telling her about it..and no..DesFlip is not mine..I'm talking about my sub..lol

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/28/2008 9:41:48 PM

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There are a few things that really get me going, whether it's into sub-space or just general 'hot' space. Granted, these are only my 'known' triggers, since I've really not had too much of a chance to explore with a man who felt truly comfortable with it. My last boyfriend would try... but it was painfully obvious that he was doing it to try and make me happy.

When I'm in my 'sub-space' the only thoughts I have are about pleasing my partner, but I also have a little bit of a sadistic streak in that I'll not do everything that they ask/command. I want them to wrest control from me... but enough about that. There's enough background to understand where I go :)

In order of the most immediate, heart-pounding base need to please to the more subtle pang-causing reminder that I'm meant to please him...

1) One word. "Down." It doesn't have to even be a command or in any sort of context. If I hear my partner say it, even in passing to someone else my heart starts to pound and my mind instantly goes into overdrive on how I can please my dominant. No matter how insolent I'm being or what I'm doing, if I hear this as a command... I simply need to obey.

2) Directing me. When the dominant orders me around, or even physically moves me around, the hairs on the back of my neck zap with electricity. When he is telling me where to go, and punishes me if I don't do as he says... I can't help it, his pleasure is more important than anything at that moment.

3) A scratch. It can be as innocuous as his hand on top of mine and a light scrape of his nail on the back of hand, or as harsh as a hard gouge. It's a simple, clean way of inflicting the pain that is so basic it reverts me to a primal state.

4) A bite. Anything from a nibble, to a sharp, deep bite, almost anywhere on my body, will make any thoughts in my head, whether of disobedience or something else, is gone. Sometimes my ex would give me an order, or something to remember, then bite me and then punish me if I forgot. More often than not... I'd forget.

5) A crack or a 'swish' of something. Doesn't necessarily have to be a whip or flogger or anything obvious... it just usually is. Even just the smack of a hand against skin... it just revs me up.

There's others, of course, those are just the mains. Also, hi :) I'm a gay sub relatively new to the site :D Hope it becomes a nice place to hang out. A friend of mine showed it to me ^_^

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/29/2008 5:43:10 PM

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Nibbling or biting at the back of my neck. *shivers*

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/31/2008 3:44:06 AM

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Being told to bend over the bed, listening as he chooses between the riding crop, the flogger or the cane. Feeling his leg brush up against me knowing he will tease me softly for a moment with his chosen implement, tracing it lightly over my skin, feeling the cold, smooth bamboo against my naked bottom and knowing its the cane...

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/31/2008 5:54:04 AM

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This is going to sound totally weird..(like that's new..lol). Last year, with a former partner, i was lying in the ER, a bone deep gash in my heel...and i was getting more and more hyper, talking a mile a minute (i know, hard to imagine..lol), when he looked over at me from a side chair, gazed into my eyes, and said...."shhhhhhhhhh, you're going to be fine". i looked back into his eyes, saw the truth, saw his care and concern, and then sank back into the bed and felt immediate calm invade my center, gave me focus. i was mush!!! and... i was fine. Even the doctor commented how calm and poised i was during the hour long procedure to stitch me back together. The side effect was that my um, who was also with me, felt the calm and certainty that all would be okay, and he settled down as well. It was a true gift.

In everyday life, it's the hands in my hair (pulling or not), a look, a tone of voice, a touch -- all of those things that are impossible to duplicate now that on my own.

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RE: Whay trips your trigger. - 8/31/2008 7:45:08 AM

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nvm about it all..

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/31/2008 8:18:08 AM

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Oh my yes...that says it all right there!

It does give me a thrill to be called "good girl" or "babygirl"....or really anything with "My" in front of it....the possessiveness...bring reminded who i belong to.

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/31/2008 9:08:04 AM

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The anticipation... being bound and hearing Him going thru the toy bag... trying to "hear" what's going on in His wicked mind...

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RE: What trips your trigger. - 8/31/2008 5:25:16 PM

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being chained up

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