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HeavansKeeper -> RE: Financial Domination (7/1/2008 2:48:19 AM)
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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress
everything is negotiable....
let me go on to say, what i am hearing is your fear and desire to stay in control and there is nothing wrong with either....find a willing partner and negotiate what works for you, some folks will be thrilled with what you describe....
Well put.
I have thought about financial domination, mostly because I hate it so. Hate is passion, though. And passion means interest.
My grievances, I feel like the dominant does very little, and the submissive does very much. But this post is not about me.
Controlling the situation makes it a role play scenario. (as said above: nothing wrong with that). I would imagine some of the luster wears off, though. Other RP's come to mind... rape-play, prostitution-play, knife-play... All these things are faked (recreated) in a controlled setting to allow for most of the feelings, but still maintain control. The key, though, is to make it appear as if control is not there. To quote Morgan Freeman in Lucky Number Slevin: "Make something that is look like what it ain't." ... maybe... sorta? I liked that movie.
My point is this: You should try to find a way to ensure as much realism as possible in your cash-flow game. Perhaps trading something other than money... Perhaps tokens representative of favors or time. This assumes money is a big factor.
I'd be concerned that in giving out $5 vs. $50 there won't be enough value. Sure, we can pretend they're hundreds, but it won't feel the same. Might as well use monopoly money.
....... I'm sorry....
This is just a very touchy topic for a Jew.
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