Ever feel threatened by a submissive?

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Yes

39% (9)

56% (13)

Maybe so

4% (1)

Total Votes : 23

(last vote on : 7/2/2008 11:33:29 PM)
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chickpea -> Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/29/2008 9:05:56 PM)
Ever feel threatened by a submissive? If so, what did you do about it?

girlygurl -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/29/2008 10:44:27 PM)
No, I haven't felt threatened by another sub. To feel threatened would mean I didn't have faith in our relationship. girly

Leatherist -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/29/2008 10:46:52 PM)
Yes. When she said "I hate sleeping alone, and you got up and slept on the couch last night-do it again and I'll cut your throat." I didn't ask for a second date. [:D]

chickpea -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 8:45:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist Yes. When she said "I hate sleeping alone, and you got up and slept on the couch last night-do it again and I'll cut your throat." I didn't ask for a second date. [:D] That doesn't sound like a submissive...

chickpea -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 8:46:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: girlygurl No, I haven't felt threatened by another sub. To feel threatened would mean I didn't have faith in our relationship. girly certainly, it's nice to have that much trust in your Dom

ResidentSadist -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 8:50:33 PM)
yes... she threatened me and bit me. I loosened my grasp of her and let her go free. We made up the next day. I did take her future threats more seriously so I used better bondage and gags from then on.

Racquelle -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 8:52:53 PM)
I have one submissive who I will only play with when several other people are present. He's a little moody, and since he's about a foot taller than me and an ex boxer...I don't risk it.

chickpea -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 10:32:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist yes... she threatened me and bit me. I loosened my grasp of her and let her go free. We made up the next day. I did take her future threats more seriously so I used better bondage and gags from then on. sometimes the solution to a relationship is within arms reach! thanks for sharing :-)

chickpea -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 10:35:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Racquelle I have one submissive who I will only play with when several other people are present. He's a little moody, and since he's about a foot taller than me and an ex boxer...I don't risk it. i wonder how you can dominate a person whom you feel physically threatened by? I guess this is technical play domination, if he refuses any of it which he seems to be finicky about, then he could lash out? Sounds pretty dangerous.. Maybe I'm wrong? But nice to see extra eyes on your towering submissive. :-)

ResidentSadist -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 11:41:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chickpea i wonder how you can dominate a person whom you feel physically threatened by? [snip] Tie them up good and tight first.

GreedyTop -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 11:45:52 PM)
I wouldn't be topping anyone who I felt was likely to retract consent and would become threatening.

christine1 -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (6/30/2008 11:48:34 PM)
i've never felt threatened by a sub...i've got enough attitude that it wouldn't happen. i have however, felt threatened by a few "doms" out there.

Racquelle -> RE: Ever feel threatened by a submissive? (7/1/2008 5:02:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: christine1 i have however, felt threatened by a few "doms" out there. I never hassle men who indicate they are dominant about subbing to me. It has always amazed me how much mdoms will hassle us at play parties and such.

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