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KatyLied -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/1/2008 12:44:38 PM)
him: didja notice I put the collar on tighter? her: no. Whatda you mean by that? him: since I don't know what I'm doin', hows about asking some strangers on the internets

chamberqueen -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/1/2008 12:57:07 PM)
My guess is that it was symbolic that you were more fully under His control. I know that it is hard to stop a session to ask questions, and you can either forget about it by the end or be so overwhelmed with other sensations that you don't think of it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking questions here; just remember that some things have a very personalized nature so we may not have the correct guesses.

DarkSteven -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/1/2008 1:30:03 PM)
Unclaimedsub, a NON-play collar has a specfic meaning. A play collar means what He and you decide it means. Including its tightness.

batshalom -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/1/2008 3:41:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chamberqueen My guess is that it was symbolic that you were more fully under His control. I know that it is hard to stop a session to ask questions, and you can either forget about it by the end or be so overwhelmed with other sensations that you don't think of it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with asking questions here; just remember that some things have a very personalized nature so we may not have the correct guesses. I would retype chamberqueen's answer, verbatim, but I'm feeling too lazy so I quoted it instead. It seems as though that is what he was intending, but who knows? It's ok to ask questions - it's not un-submissive to get clarification for something you don't know.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/1/2008 4:01:08 PM)
Aileen- ditto, precisely. How DID you answer the question?

SocialPerversion -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/2/2008 11:36:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: unclaimedsub38 ...so to the the posters who felt my post was ( soapoperish) may i remind some that we are not all as experienced as we may like to be and that even the ones who posted smartass comments where also new once.... O Rly? Collarme is not the only place you will find sarcasm on the interwebs... learn to laugh with it or ignore it and your visit will be much better. I found the comments quite funny and though they did not address your questions they were apt. You should be happy the were funny comments and not an attack or flame. Though you denote you are a submissive you should get a pretty tough hide before engaging in ANY forum on the internet. <-- Not attacking you, offering a suggestion for making your future visits more friendly. As for your question, I would assume the issue had to do with control however without hearing more about the differences between play this time and play in the past it would be imposable for anyone here to answer the question. I would speak to your top and find out what they mean. ~~conquer4love~~

Thadius -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/3/2008 12:19:21 AM)
*fast reply* Could we all be missing the obvious, she is still gagged? Just a random thought.

DesFIP -> RE: as the collar gets tighter (7/3/2008 7:56:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Unclaimedsub, a NON-play collar has a specfic meaning. A play collar means what He and you decide it means. Including its tightness. Other way around IMO. A play collar specifically means submission is only for the duration of the scene. A nonplay collar needs to have expectations made explicit, not implicit which requires negotiation and communication. Meaning that the areas you submit are determined by what you and he decide.

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