Mercnbeth -> RE: Three truths and a lie (7/1/2008 12:08:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse - I drive a 10 year old car.
- Vanilla is my favorite ice cream flavor.
- I never received a college degree.
- I have never experienced a scene as a submissive. FALSE!
I am going to sayyyyyyyyyy.......... #2 is the lie. HA! What do I win, all the truisms were picked - I love Vanilla ice cream! The false answer is #4. And it doesn't reference those college days when my tactic to get to tie up my date, was to say to her; "Okay - you can tie me up and 'do-me' then its my turn!" Is there anything more dominant than 'submitting' to be serviced in that manner? Anyway... As an young (22) apprentice Dom in NYC I lost a bet, (forgot what it was), to an evil Domme in NYC at the Hellfire who claimed she could 'turn me'. I honored my bet and agreed to submit. I didn't enjoy it. For some reason, my 'mind wasn't right' or at least 'failed to communicate' in the expected manner and I couldn't stop giggling between the loud OUCH outbursts; and the final result was a paddle broken on my ass, some blood blisters, and sitting on extra cushions for a few days. I theorized after that experience that it is difficult, if not impossible, for a Dom or Top to understand or appreciate the mental emotional processing of a sub or bottom when it comes to processing the sensations of WIITWD. For me it was giggling, nothing sexual, nothing sensual, and sure as hell - no processing the pain as any form of pleasure. Therefor 'testing' any appliance or apparatus on yourself coming from the hitting side of the flogger is mostly irrelevant. It is not only a good theory, but a great rationalization to pass on any personal "here-try this" on myself. Just recently at passed on trying on me a little electrical shock pen using that indisputable 'logic'. Instead, I had beth come over and 'tested' it by observing her reaction. Interestingly she [sm=shake.gif]winced [sm=donttaseme.gif]while I giggled[sm=lol.gif] similarly to how I did 30 years ago at Hellfire.
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