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ballerinaboy -> Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 7:23:01 AM)
I was wondering,do Mistresses prefer shorter or longer sessions with their subs?I for one find that an hour is not enough,and Id much rather spend a long time in bondage,than have an action packed hour of whipping etc-and surely this must be less strenuous for the Mistress too?!The cost of a longer session is prohibitive for me,even though Id just prefer some long term bondage...

CruelDesires -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 7:25:04 AM)
Find someone that does multiple hour discounts? CD

ProtagonistLily -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 7:25:52 AM)
quote: I was wondering,do Mistresses prefer shorter or longer sessions with their subs?I for one find that an hour is not enough,and Id much rather spend a long time in bondage,than have an action packed hour of whipping etc-and surely this must be less strenuous for the Mistress too?!The cost of a longer session is prohibitive for me,even though Id just prefer some long term bondage... Yes, because it's all about what the sub wants.... If you want longer and you are paying, pony up, and don't whine about it. That's unbecoming a submissive. If you are tired of paying, then get INVOLVED in your local scene, go to a munch, meet people who are not professionals and see what happens. PL

RavenMuse -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 7:30:11 AM)
Maybe a novel idea but you COULD try finding a Dominant someone to have a RELATIONSHIP with rather than employing a pro-Top? Just a thought

crouchingtigress -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 8:20:38 AM)
long term bondage: yum. your fantasy is an incredibly beautiful one that that i have loved doing with submissives....both professionally and personally... i am absolutely possitive that you could negotiate this with a prodom worth her salt....i would look for a pro that was also lifestyle though.[;)] amy

vampchick88 -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 8:27:49 AM)
I love hourly play!!! The longer it lasts the deeper myself and pet get into our own headspaces and linger there. The more intense things get and the more comfortable we get together. It takes a while to achieve exactly what I want, I'd rather have time to enjoy it anyday rather than a short session. Plus its more time that pet suffers for me[:)][:)][:)] ~Lorelei

ponyboyachilles -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 9:52:26 AM)
I've always fantasized about long-term bondage. But when I was actually subjected to it (blindfolded, gagged, strapped down spread-eagle to a bondage table and left "alone" for a couple of hours), I found myself alternately excited and bored, but bored much more of the time than excited (I was never really alone because Mistress was in the next room the entire time and I was being constantly monitored by video). I spent a lot of the time trying to escape, and while it was erotic, I have been much more aroused by being teased or even flogged than by simply being left there to stew. Be careful what you wish for - you just might get it!

Lynnxz -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 9:53:34 AM)
quote: The cost of a longer session is prohibitive for me, Well, then I suppose you better save up.

ballerinaboy -> RE: Shorter or longer sessions? (7/2/2008 10:07:57 AM)
It is what I wish for..whilst I accept the boredom thing,thats surely part of the feeling of utter helplessness?

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