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HollywoodExecDom -> RE: If only they knew.... (7/2/2008 6:43:59 PM)
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Like what? :)
In terms of BDSM, I like if my sub is a total newbie and relies on me to show her everything. Not every Dom is like this, its a personal preference thing, but I personally love the aspect of teaching a girl S&M. Its the mentor / student thing. Its fundamentally a Dominant submissive power exchange relationship to a degree.
Its not so much specific knowledge, as attitude, but the main thing I want from a sub is a willingness to learn and to be submissive... and by being submissive, I don't mean doormat, but general willingness to go along with what I'm commanding as part of play. Along those same lines, I want my sub to know basically what she's committing herself to by assuming the role of a submissive.
Just because a Dom doesn't require his sub to have any specific knowledge doesn't mean as a submissive you shouldn't come to the table with knowledge - particularly what is safe and sane play - but you can find this in most basic S&M books like S&M101. But obviously, possessing that knowledge is to your benefit - not necessarily to the Doms (although I sure as hell hope they're very well versed in what's safe play!)
Finally, other knowledge I like to a sub to have... enjoyment of art perhaps? Knowledge of film? Knowledge about world politics? All good things :)
That and how to give a good blow job always impresses! :P
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