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Lynnxz -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 4:57:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Personally, and maybe it's cause I am not a Domme but the bottom, I am naked when I play:)
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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

but dressing up just makes it more entertaining for everyone.



Hey I never said it stayed on. [:D]



LadyPact -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 5:02:53 AM)

OP, you obviously haven't seen My profile, or the number of photos with just a few of the different outfits that I wear.

I absolutely love to dress for play.  More often than not, I play away from home at the club or events.  That means the corsets and such are a given.  If it's not leather for going out, it's lingerie at home.   I may have had one or two scenes in 'every day' clothes in the last year.  If I have the time to take out the toys, I probably had time to dress.

Which, now that I think of it, will certainly provide a challenge now that My personal corset lacer is no longer with Me.  I can just see Myself wandering around the club, corset in hand, asking random folks if they wouldn't mind stringing Me up. 
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Sylverdawn -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 5:31:32 AM)

I think if your going out to an event .. away for a weekend then fetish wear is the norm.. I love a good corset.. my nails and toes done to perfection.. hair just so.. at home Im afriad your not often going to find me dressed like that .. its going to be my normal day wear or night wear depending..



thetammyjo -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 5:50:40 AM)

If I'm "scening" meaning doing SM or bondage in my book, then I'm dressing comfortably to increase my ability to do what needs to get done with little interference. That means usually leggings or bike shorts and tank top or t-shirt and solid flat shoes with some arch support so I never lose my footing.

If someone needs a doll dressed up in fetish clothes, tottering on high heels, with make-up covering her skin.. there's my door don't let it hit your ass too hard on the way out.



MsStarlett -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 7:48:11 AM)

I don't get to session often, so I love to dress up and make the event special for both of us.  I normally wear capris or cargo pants and t-shirts to work, so any excuse to dress up is good for me.  I'm pretty much always the one to over dress for a party. 

Dressing also helps me get into the mind set to be putting on my 'battle' gear.  It's also appealing to me to have my boy help me get dressed.  It helps to build the excitement.  Sometimes I do the make up, sometimes I just get to hot and bothered and skip it to rush right in.  [:)] 

It was fun this past weekend to have my sweet boy look up, hesitantly touch the front of my corset and tell me it was a nice visual. 



GentlemanBobIII -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 6:24:49 PM)

I am with you. Though I don't wear those things (being a guy) I don't see how you can go wrong with a teddy stockings, marabou trimmed heeled satin slippers, and a feather boa. I think a lot of women in and out of the lifestyle, don't realize the power lingerie gives them over a man. It accentuates thier natural beauty and curves and offers a  little extra. Good Show. -Bob



GentlemanBobIII -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 6:28:29 PM)

I'd be happy to assist you with that(lacing up corset), just tell me what to do and how to do it. The most I ever did was zip up my former wife. I suspect corsets are a bit more complicated. Sexy as hell, but complicated, Bob



GentlemanBobIII -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 6:43:23 PM)

I was going to say the same thing more or less that at some point in the relationship the dressing tends to change more for comfort. I will admit, that a woman who dresses up makes me feel good, because it means she thinks I'm worth the effort. Plus it makes me weak around them, which I think on some level all women enjoy that slight thrill of power, though I could be mistaken. By the same token, if a woman ALWAYS dresses up even when the situation does NOT require it, it loses some of the specialness, if that makes any sense. BTW  Dodedo I have to say this you have the most beautiful eyes and a nice smile too. Not hitting on you just an observation. -Bob



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 6:48:14 PM)

I dont dress for scenes, except if you consider pantyhose for Angel's fetish to be dressing. I dnt see a reason to be uncomfortable to make someone else happy. If I enjoyed being dressed up, maybe that would be different but I dislike it.
I can be as dominant in tee shirt and jeans as I can be in a crset and high bots... actually moreso in tee shirt and jeans becasue i am comfortable that way and not concentrating on how I look or feel in the outfit.
I will dress for photos, but little else.

DV



CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 6:58:53 PM)

I hate dressing up for work, but adore dressing up for play -- I'm seriously considering getting a corset to wear under my work clothes to make them more tolerable. I need a cotton one anyway, for fireplay (alcohol ruins leather, and synthetics will melt).

Firestorm



undergroundsea -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 8:01:17 PM)

I don't always dress up for play. Sometimes I do. Sometimes I have been asked to. Sometimes I already was because it happened at the end of an event ;-)

At times I dress up to add to the scene. For instance, I recently served at a lesbian pool party and, to go with the purpose I was serving there, dressed as a butler. I think dressing can enhance the scene by creating a bigger energy of participation. The energy of participation can be conveyed through various means and dressing up is one such mean.

I am more particular about dressing when attending events.

Cheers,

Sea



joyinslavery -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/3/2008 8:13:17 PM)

If you're naked who cares?

Guess it depends on what "play" is. 

Have fun. 



openmindedslave -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/4/2008 11:27:04 AM)

You know I  sometimes we dont see something that s infront of us until  someone touches on it .
What about nude slaves who wear a collar..Whether for training ..correction or  for what reason. I can also see that helping a Mistress to dress can be very exciting also Any feelings on these ideas?



MsStarlett -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/4/2008 12:02:46 PM)

For play time, my boys only wear their collar.  It's good for 'grabbing' them when they have short hair.  I still have trouble catching Westie by his.



LaMistressa -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/4/2008 12:14:51 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GentlemanBobIII

I am with you. Though I don't wear those things (being a guy) I don't see how you can go wrong with a teddy stockings, marabou trimmed heeled satin slippers, and a feather boa.


And here I was thinking this is a perfect clotihng description for a guy!

I love fetishwear, so when I go to a party or dungeon I am always dressed in either pvc, latex, or a corset and velvet skirt combo. At home though, I'm usually in yoga pants and a tank top - still flattering on, but a lot more comfy. But my maid is always dressed up in something pretty at my direction (depending on if she is doing chores or I am playing with her), and if we have another woman coming over for a play date, then I dress up a bit as well.



MsStarlett -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/4/2008 12:22:20 PM)

*giggle*  Now, I DID have fun meeting my Westie at the door in my most ragged 'Red Neck Nighty' long T-shirt and nothing else.  He still adored me.  Same as the first day I dressed up for him.  I do rather enjoy 'testing' a boy's loyalty.  If they only want me when I'm all 'gussied up' - it's not going to work in the long run.



undergroundsea -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/4/2008 4:35:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaMistressa
I love fetishwear, so when I go to a party or dungeon I am always dressed in either pvc, latex, or a corset and velvet skirt combo.


I agree. I began with leather and have branched to latex and PVC. I have latex tops but am still hestitant to get latex pants given my penchant for kneeling and sitting on the floor ;-)

I wear wrist cuffs frequently at home (when playing) and at events. At events, they are there for functionality, function, and flagging. At home, they are there mostly for function.

I mix and match frequently and add my own spin on things. I agree with a statement Skully made recently. I consider how I dress to be part of my individual expression.

Cheers,

Sea



sheep -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/5/2008 9:00:20 AM)

I love dressing up for special occasions, whether it's in leather for an event or a play party, or a nice suit to go for dinner or a reception, or even dressing for camping, hiking or kayaking. At home or work I'm generally casual, I just find it fun to get scrubbed up and looking nice. You'd never catch me dead wearing sweatpants outside the house though.

In play I absolutely love fetish dressing, but it's hardly a requirement. Probably 90% of the playing I've done has not involved fetwear. And while I agree that the clothing does not make the Mistress, it can help. Hot bodies are great but we're not all blessed with them, and a nice leather skirt and corset can help turn an average gal into a goregeous sexy goddess. To each their own but it's something I really like.



Coupleofwhats -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/5/2008 11:03:00 AM)

I don't often dress up at home. Sometimes I'll do a latex dress that I can slip right into/out of when I'm in the mood for it. But mostly, that sort of thing is for Pro sessions and parties.



TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Dressing for a Sessioning (7/5/2008 11:15:44 AM)

No.



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