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EvilGenie -> RE: Why won't some Mistress respond back to you (7/5/2008 9:28:40 PM)
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I have in large print at the top of my profile,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,Not seeking other than friends. I am married to mine and I do some mentoring very rarely now. I *still* receive a ton of mail asking to be mine. I am not online here all that often right now as life is a bit too busy. What would not have gotten a response from me are the copied and pasted open letters. I do love it though when someone has forgotten that they have already sent me said copy and paste twice already! You don't want to know my reply to him ~weg~
In my world, you've *got* to read the entire profile and respond to the profile accordingly. There will always be those who won't answer due to time, an obvious lack of complimenting interests, etc. I also stopped the ''no thank you'' with men who write to say they are at my feet. I do not find that to be cute nor charming of someone whom I do not know. One thing that will certainly get a response from me, and that is someone who clearly understands and does not buy the fantasy of it all. I cannot count the times I have received a message and stated my requirement for further contact; a detailed synopsis of said person including but not limited to how and when they discovered who they are or if they know who they are and why. I also ask in detail what is being sought, hopes, dreams, desires, etc. I cannot even begin to count the number who promised to do so and were never heard from again. Some would respond ''whatever you want is what I want.'' To that, I say monkey muffins! You must be clear in what *you* want and in *who* you are or be seeking help to answer those questions. Never give me the ''your wish is my command'' BS.
Just a few thoughts.
** Edited to add: Some are also here, on the other side, who have no skill/experience and who come to ''play.'' These folks have no intention and/or ability to ever do this real time.
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