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MissIsis -> RE: 61 year old sub male (7/6/2008 1:40:11 PM)
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Why not include your wife & try to get her to attend some of the munches with you. They are pretty non-threatening & generally very welcoming. Maybe it would help her to get to know others & get to understand the lifestyle. It sounds like you are able to at least have some communication with her & that she is supportive enough to try to go through the motions with you. That is a lot more than other submissives sometimes get. It is possible she may never be interested to go into this wholeheartedly. But if you serve her as well as you can, and still have extra energy left, maybe she would eventually be supportive enough to reward you by letting you indulge in your fetishes with her blessings within limitations you might ask her to set for you. That way, she would be the number 1 women you are serving.
In other words, by serving her with all your heart, what matters more will be your kink of serving her in whatever ways give her pleasure. That is what service is all about anyway.
Otherwise, what you are wanting is her to service you by indulging you in your kinks whether she enjoys them or not. That to me is much more the behaviour of a dominant than a submissive. That becomes her serving you, rather than you serving her.
Maybe if you enjoy just the kink part, you are actually a bottom, rather than a submissive. There is really nothing wrong with that, as long as you are clear to yourself & to those you care to involve.
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