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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 7:56:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

(hones machete, polishes bullets) my Sir has never left me unsatisfied . .... and its a good thing too! i might go off bwahahahaha

thank you for the am laughter......

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 8:02:42 AM

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I know quite a few subs that are selective and want a connection. Therefore they have long spans of frustration and hroniness. None of them to my knowledge got violent. I myself, havent got any in coming up on 4 weeks now. I have been use to regular somethin, somethin. I havebeen a bit to sad to be frustrated but I'll let ya know.

Oh wait, hold on, I feel an Ire commin on. Get me a knife, I hate men, gimme a victim, ahhhhh

By all means, hop a plane and get out here dear one...we cant have sexual frustration lead to violence....ill make some calls and line up some fun for all.
ill hide my ginsu collection before picking you up.

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 8:03:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
Hey, I was just thinking of a horror movie called, "Dawn of the Frustrated Subs".
Can you see us all? Chomping off the heads of our bosses. We could be dark eyed with crazy narled hair and lets not forget rabid and foaming at the mouth!

Thats girl in the morning...with morning breath mixed with Masters cum!

Can ya picture us now?

When did you see the last report of a violent masochist?
See kiwisub12 *giggles**

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 10:01:48 AM

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I've never hit anyone in my life. I was in a vanilla marriage for 20 years. He was not dominant, did not want the responsibility, and although we tried bondage it made him feel like a rapist. So we didn't do that. We still had consistently satisfying sex and for some years a solid relationship. It fell apart because of other stresses.

So you can safely say that I have proved him wrong. And oh yeah, I love being picked up, thrown down, pinned down and taken hard.

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 10:14:20 AM

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I wonder how he actually meant what he said. Usually women tend to withdraw, get passive aggressive, bitchy, and emotionally abusive rather than actually physically violent if they don't get what they want. Often this is because they do not know any productive ways to actually ask for what they want, if they even really KNOW what it is rather than projecting that the guy is a loser.

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 11:03:21 AM

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Any attempt to categorize people into absolutes will fail, because people do not live in black and white.

With that said, there's nothing wrong with a good ol' violent fuck every now and then! Some people just bring out the devil in me!

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 1:13:16 PM

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"Piffle" is taken, nuts.
Can I claim "tosh?"

I like rough sex too, but I'm only violent when:
a. doing sports that require it, like kickboxing; and
b. when the government pays me to.

I can get might cranky if I'm not getting any, but that goes for vanilla sex too!

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 1:23:48 PM

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What a load of ****

i adore violent sex.. But i don't get violent if i don't get it enough, quite the opposite infact.

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 1:43:28 PM

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Sorry, but yes, it's true, been there, done that, my ex for one - not to say that every woman who's into rough sex is like this, most aren't, some just get bored and go elsewhere.

It's really kind of a tough call, especially in a vanilla situation where there is no prior discussion or negitiation - if she acts physically agressive, I usually take it as a cue to up the ante, but again, they don't all do that either, some act very passive, some might become verbally aggressive or send mixed signals - I tend to go slow as a matter of policy, it can get very unfortunate if you misread the cues and get too aggressive with somebody who isn't expecting it - never make any assumptions based on what somebody else has told you about women, they are not homogeneous objects, they're unique individuals just like you.

In the end, communication is the best approach, teasing is way to get her to open up without making it seem like and interrogation, i.e., "if you keep this up, I'm going to have to spank you", or some such, and then reading the reaction - again, a woman who likes rough sex may well respond in the negative just to piss you off. Sometimes the direct approach works, just ask her "oh, you like it rough do you?", it really depends on how far she wants to go - with some women, you might not ever figure it out, I usually avoid those ones, they play rough - they may try to goad you into it just so they can turn it against you, again, my ex. Luckily, I can take it or leave it, it's all good.

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 2:07:30 PM

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I recently related my experiences with a violent sub to a friend of mine whom I visit once a year. He said that for twenty years he was married to a woman who enjoyed rough sex, being tied up, spanked, etc., etc. He also said that those submissives who enjoy violent sex will become violent if they do not receive it the way they want it.

Well, I'm one of those who enjoys rough sex, being tied up, spanked, etc., etc., and I can tell you I wouldn't become violent. I'd just walk away if it wasn't rough at least now and then.

Violence is a choice.

I choose not to be violent.

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 2:21:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: Tormentise

He also said that those submissives who enjoy violent sex will become violent if they do not receive it the way they want it.

this is clearly why DV plans to beat and sodomise me so often

its for *His* own safety

as to what you discussed with your friend ... that might be true of some *bottoms* ... but I dont think I ever met or interacted online with a submissive who would become violent if they didn't get what they wanted/needed

although ... few weeks without sodomy .. and the floor would be being violently cleaned

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/4/2008 4:45:45 PM

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Lmao I doubt any sub is gonna go off and attack someone because it was not rough enough and do they have disposable Mommies as well? I've been a bad boy..*Smiles*..lol

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RE: Violent Sex - 7/7/2008 3:34:31 AM

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I do find I 'suffer' a significant frustration when my husband holds back his dominance or sex in general. I do not believe I would ever become violent over it though.

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