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RE: What protections/guarantees does a submissive have? - 7/4/2008 6:09:26 PM

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Would that be so terrible if you did "get all mushy"? In any case you didn't smooch me, I was just letting politesub know how lucky he was to be smooched by you. Funny word smooch, you don't hear it used that much these days. It's a good word. BTW what does ~~FR~~ mean, at the top of your post? TTFN-Bob

~~FR~~ means Fast Reply......... I am using the fast reply function at the bottom of the page, rather than replying to, or quoting a specific post.

And I'd smooch PoliteSub all over...... he's the perfect definition of "gentleman". Just wish the distance across the pond was much shorter, or he would learn to fly!

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RE: What protections/guarantees does a submissive have? - 7/4/2008 6:17:24 PM

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Of course you haven't met me yet. LOL I too am, a gentleman. Like I said though, PoliteSub is a lucky man. Although I doubt that any man would complain if you wanted to smooch him. I know I wouldn't. Have a great day maam. (tipping hat) It was nice exchanging discourse and recieving the benefit of your knowledge obtained over years of being in this lifestyle. Thank ye kindly for your replies in this and other threads today. -Bob

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RE: What protections/guarantees does a submissive have? - 7/5/2008 3:58:27 PM

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There are no guarantees in life and that goes for relationships too. My advice is to really get to know the person to whom you will be submitting, otherwise you could end up with a real nutjob. This goes for all relationships and roles. Negotiation is paramount in a D/s relationship so make damn sure that you both have the same limits and you have established trust, otherwise you may end up being sorry you got involved with that person.

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RE: What protections/guarantees does a submissive have? - 7/5/2008 5:47:33 PM

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I hate to break it to you, Bob, but you really don't. These are one of the reasons that people around here so often tell each other to "trust their gut" when it comes to chosing who they play with. Make good decisions about who and where you play. It doesn't hurt to get to know someone before playing with them, getting a feel for their values, asking them questions, and listening to their opinions on the subject. If it's possible, talk with someone they've played with before, or people who have watched them scene.

No, it isn't fool-proof, but there's no harm in it, either.

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RE: What protections/guarantees does a submissive have? - 7/5/2008 8:01:13 PM

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I promise not to knock the snot out of anyone as long as they keep their paws off my Ben & Jerry's. Unless they ask me really nicely, then I'll try to accommodate that request.

Communications bay-bay! If you get a wonky vibe off someone, walk away. Lifestyle or vanilla. Some people just click, some don't. Some pretend to be something that they are not. Life is full of risks. When I was a young woman, I was date raped by a man who seemed to be the perfect gentleman when he invited me to his home in the woods for a grilled steak dinner with all the trimmings. He even seemed somewhat submissive. Wrong answer. When I got to his house, he over powered me, waved a gun in my face, forced pills down my throat and told me that if I fought back, no one would ever find my body. The evening went pretty much down hill from that point.

Life is risk. Be careful who you play with.

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