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HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (7/6/2008 2:42:50 AM)

"No marks?" he asks as he admires the Lady's initial scratched onto his chest at the club's Independance Day/ Vice President's birthday party tonight.  (No, not Dick Cheney.)  "What fun is that?"

But, seriously, as I am an adult and only play with adults, I'm really not big on the whole "punishment" paradigm.  If I were, however, the most effective punishment for me, a heavy maso, would leave no marks, because it would involve not even touching me.  Talk about cruel and unusual torture!




Sabella -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (7/6/2008 4:39:42 AM)

Archer you're brilliant!!!!!!!!

<---has flashback to the young Zoro doing pushups while old Zoro props his feet up on his back, smoking a cigar.




Jondaman -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (7/6/2008 9:22:11 AM)

I have often found - and this works with male and female - that inserting a butt plug which requires constant clenching of the buttocks to keep in place is a wonderful 'punishment' especially when worn in public with no pants to help stop it from slipping out.

The mental pressure of keeping it in and saving the shame of it slipping out with a 'plop' and landing on the floor or pavement in a public area is intense.

And, of course, little exercises can be carried out on command like stretching to get things off a top shelf in a store or being told to squat and still retain hold of the dildo and so on.

It really can be emotionally and mentally very tiring for a sub.




CruelDesires -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (7/6/2008 4:42:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jondaman
The mental pressure of keeping it in and saving the shame of it slipping out with a 'plop' and landing on the floor or pavement in a public area is intense.



And you don't mind it if that little 80 year old lady who is at the store picking up her cottage cheese and incotinence pills and who is tottering along thinking about her great grandchildren and their upcoming birthdays with not a worry in the world and all of a sudden a wet and perhaps stained butt plugs lands "plop" at her feet? Would you consider that consensual play? Did you get her consent to be involved with your buttplug punishment?

CD




LadyLethe -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (7/14/2008 9:23:03 PM)


Of course, the slave/submissive should be trained properly, but some want to be given difficult challenges and punished if they don't measure up. That isn't play. It is real for them, a way of being pushed and stretched. I especially liked the idea of uncomfortable punishments that are unpleasant and memorable while not being out of proportion to the crime committed.

As for the bruises, people have many reasons for wanting to avoid them. I play with a submissive who takes blood thinners. I don't want to leave bruises because it is dangerous for his health. And, I don't want his doctor to see bruises, either. Another submissive with whom I play has an elderly mother and takes care of her. He is often at her house and doesn't want to risk having bruises that she might inadvertently see.






SlaveSubtoserve -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (7/31/2008 1:04:17 PM)

- assuming the sub's knees are ok, extended kneeling sessions- 1-hour or +  as possible, hands behind neck, small book or whatever on head, no movement allowed

- if movement violation, kneeling discipline is repeated daily until successful

...definitely no marks or bruises, and a lesson absorbed for sure




SheWhoSeeks1 -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/1/2008 6:01:45 PM)

I wanted to thank everybody for the ideas. To set the record straight, I am a lifestyle Domme. I am not doing any Pro work.







monywildcat -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/1/2008 8:07:24 PM)

You know what would really be effective punishment, and not leave tell-tale marks?  Make him wear those mismatched shoes, and put a pebble in one of them.  OW




MasterTslave -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/2/2008 5:04:20 AM)

Master T uses "the ball", it can be mod for you I'm sure.  Master has me put on my high heels and cuffs me (hands behind head), sometimes blindfolds me, then he has me squat next to the wall and hold a ping pong ball with the tip of my nose (note, can't squish ball with my nose on wall, tip of nose).  This punishment works wonders, makes my legs yell for mercy and after about 10 minutes, I get unsteady as my legs are growning tired..but if I drop the ball either way more time (like 1/2 hour) with the ball OR Master will swat my ass or something else uncomfortable.
I have a blog of what my Master does to me daily, some interesting punishments if you want to check it out www.mtslave.wordpress.com




DesFIP -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/2/2008 5:54:26 AM)

Electric play shouldn't leave marks but can hurt.
Violet wand, electric flyswatter.




IvyMorgan -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/2/2008 7:00:36 AM)

remembers the quite beautiful marks on her arms from the violet wand/knife combination... it is all in the physics :)




o2cumagain -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/2/2008 8:02:54 AM)

If I may make a simple little comment, extended wear of clover clamps, they dont leave visible marks, and they hurt like hell after 20 minutes. if i understand right your sub is not into pain, then this may help you, and if hes really bad put a little weight on them.




stella41b -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/2/2008 10:46:17 AM)

Corporal punishment without leaving marks?

1. Drape a soaking wet towel over submissive's buttocks prior to punishment.

2. Have the submissive wear a soaking wet pantie girdle and punish him over the pantie girdle.




kristileigh -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/7/2008 7:25:16 PM)

Cinnamon oil..........little drop will do You.
Burns like hell, leaves no marks and if it isn't wiped off it is the gift that keeps on giving.
Can be applied to any tender skin...... Master has played with my nipples almost until raw and then applied a drop to each felt it all day and the nipples stayed very hard and very sensitive.

Can be applied to any tender skin areas.......balls, cock shaft ,nipples, clit

have fun!




Violation -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/27/2008 4:49:57 AM)

The joy in secretly hurting and marking another's partner is depraved and delicious for the same reason.  The removal of a lone pubic hair can often be found to refocus attention and thus shaving becomes a privilege earned through obedience.  That tiny tender pink opening at the tip of a penis is so vulnerable and sensitive to sensation and ointments and is rarely inspected by cuckholds, male and female.  Nipples, beautiful pairs of them, can often be abused dreadfully leaving little if any sign of torment.  The balls, pulled tight against the skin react suitably to even the lightest smack with a corrective ruler.  Collecting and measuring progress in obedience can be entertaining as one sees how many glasses of golden piss get consumed at each error with the jar remaining more and more full every day.  One must however, guard against those who desire the punishments for their own ends rather than striving to perfect their service.  Art, rather than technique, being that which results in a well trained and obedient servant, so paint with care lest you end up with dreck rather than a masterpiece.




swan70 -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/27/2008 9:27:40 AM)

the worst punishment i ever received--having to shove my panties up my crotch.  And keep them there for a few hours.  It becomes PAINFUL--but not harmful.  You become so dry-movement just hurts.





LadyConstanze -> RE: Punishment without Bruises or Marks (11/29/2008 3:41:28 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Electric play shouldn't leave marks but can hurt.
Violet wand, electric flyswatter.



Combine deep heat and simple TENS unit, very painful....

Deep heat and hot and cold...

Nipple play (clothes pegs can be effective, especially if applied differently after a while)

Testicles, try a vampire glove on them

Pubes, get a pair of tweezers and go to work...

Almost limitless fun here...




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