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Lumus -> Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 4:48:22 PM)

Greetings, one and all.  Before this degenerates into a confused public conversation, I have a few words:

It is well known that from the beginning, dominance must be established through regular, firm, unconditional assertion.  Establish your dominance through the words you speak, and the manner in which you speak them.  Understand, as well, that the orders you give can only be complied with in direct proportion to the care with which they are issued.  Use body language to make it clear that you are like a stone; unfeeling, unmoving, and one not to be bargained with.

As your lessons begin to sink in, you will witness some maturity as a result of your efforts.  Do not become content at this point.  Maintain order!  Even as you improve your ability to issue orders, others will improve their abilities to skirt around them.  Do not let this happen; it will undermine the whole process!

Finally, when you have taught all that you can, those with whom you have given your greatest energies will be driven, nonetheless, to move on.  This is inevitable.  Accept this change of order as a natural consequence for all your hard work.  They are your responsibility!  You can only get from them what you put into them!  This will be apparent not only to yourself, but others, and comments back on the efforts you put forth.

With our inspirational speech of the week, I'd like to open the floor to the rest of the council members of the PTA.

...

This isn't the PTA?





DesFIP -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 4:57:53 PM)

Ah, moving up ceremony for 5th grade? You taught them all you had to teach and now it's time for middle school.




beargonewild -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 4:58:40 PM)

Just color me confused!




Lumus -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:04:15 PM)

Every once in a while, I have to blow off the writing raving by doing something silly and fluffy.

It was this or a D/s scene between Pikachu and Meowth.





lusciouslips19 -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:04:28 PM)

lady Rainfire has really got you in a tizzy. You aint making any sense and shes pulled the wool over your eyes. Thinking you are in charge and everything when really shes getting everything she wants but you think its all your idea.[:D]




Shadow-tiger -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:06:26 PM)

Hello. My name is Dom, James Dom. My card...

Lumus, either you're screwing with us or you're describing a dynamic where one plays hard ball from the first introduction. If that were the case, I'm so screwed the moment I even say hello! And then you're telling me that after all that hard work. All those carefully prepared frozen dinners that I'm going to have to let her go again? Say it ain't so!




Shadow-tiger -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:07:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

It was this or a D/s scene between Pikachu and Meowth.


Dude! Yes! Oh please please pretty please? Don't make me do doe eyes, 'cause I will!

(in a very strange mood today)




ResidentSadist -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:08:44 PM)

Exerting Dominance thread - $4.99
Deviance, Act I
 thread - $14.99

D/s scene between Pikachu and Meowth - $ priceless




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:09:15 PM)

my boobies, long hair, and hot body.....create dominance over the weak.






Lumus -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:12:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Exerting Dominance thread - $4.99
Deviance, Act I
 thread - $14.99

D/s scene between Pikachu and Meowth - $ priceless


*will write for food*

[Gawd, the writer is a cheap whore.  No wonder I'm here...]





ResidentSadist -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:13:50 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl
my boobies, long hair, and hot body.....create dominance over the weak.

At first I thought you said “week” and the Rocky Horror song started in the back of my mind “In just 7 days… I can make you a man”. 

Now I can’t get that outta’ my mind.  You don’t have a corset and heels by any chance?

OK.. Lumus... I will stop hijacking now.  Thanx for renting me the space. 
[:)]




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:15:11 PM)

quote:

You don’t have a corset and heels by any chance?


no im poor.  corsets cost more than the new hdtv im buying next week.





chamberqueen -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/5/2008 5:19:15 PM)

You said, "Understand, as well, that the orders you give can only be complied with in direct proportion to the care with which they are issued." 

With this care has to come the knowledge that the submissive has clearly understood the order.  Even a command as simple as "strip" should be explained to a new sub.  Fast or slow?  Take the time to fold the clothes neatly?  Give a command like "please me" and it may leave someone unfamiliar with your ways in a complete tizzy. 

I also noticed that understanding was left out.  I start my sessions with a full body inspection.  Besides being humbling and getting the sub in the right state of mind this lets me look for any bruises, other skin discolorations or cuts, and I ask about their health.  I would not expect the same service from someone recovering from the flu or with a sore joint as I would from someone feeling bouncy and completely healthy. 

It is often the subtleties that make the difference between a good Dominant and someone who simply enjoys dominating.  Always appearing severe may appeal to some, while others tend to give their all when honest compliments and signs of thanks are sprinkled throughout.  People are too distinctive for many hard and fast rules to be set.  That's where imagination and empathy can be some of the most important traits of a Dom/me.




beargonewild -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/6/2008 6:01:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

Every once in a while, I have to blow off the writing raving by doing something silly and fluffy.

It was this or a D/s scene between Pikachu and Meowth.




It's tough to fully comprehend  when having a pair of hands covering the ears.




writerly808 -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/6/2008 7:06:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lumus

It was this or a D/s scene between Pikachu and Meowth.


Oh, ow. I'm not sure that ought to amuse me as much as it does, considering how mind-bending it is... LOL!




kiwisub12 -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/6/2008 7:14:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist



At first I thought you said “week” and the Rocky Horror song started in the back of my mind “In just 7 days… I can make you a man”. 

Now I can’t get that outta’ my mind.  You don’t have a corset and heels by any chance?

OK.. Lumus... I will stop hijacking now.  Thanx for renting me the space. 
[:)]




umm   .....    could you post a picture please, RS?   I would even be willing to pay for that image (snickerz)




Shadow-tiger -> RE: Exerting Dominance (7/6/2008 12:12:29 PM)

Heehee. I've been having odd moments where I'd go "Pika! *wacha!*" while making whip cracking motions. For some reason my roomie shudders when I do.. 




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