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subalps -> Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 3:25:41 PM)

Hi all,

Im a submissive wife who would has been asked to come up with a number of submissive acts that I can do to please my master. Some of these act must be cause me a certain level of humiliation, ideally in a public place.

My task is to come up with a list of possible acts. Once I have them (my master will add a few of his own) we are going to put them in a hat and randomly choose once at his leisure. Given that my master is quite the voyeur and loves to make quite an exhibitionist out me, I'm imagining that many of the tasks will revolve around this. Having said this, not all tasks are to be for public view, so am looking for ideas around the house too.

Being experienced Masters, I was hoping you could give me some suggestions.

Please help

Regards,

B



Huntertn -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:00:43 PM)

great the ups person at the door ...stripped...lol



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:03:19 PM)

It's difficult to provide a list of things for you to do, because what seems submissive and/or humiliating to one person, might not to you and your master, or vice versa.  Try brainstorming a few things that say "submission" to you and build from there.  You don't have to focus on the stereotypical "slave crawling on hands and knees" type of scenario.  Get creative, have fun with it.  You can also use the Search feature to find past threads that might be helpful.  In either case, try to pick things that speak to you and create the desired emotional response.



BindURNips -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:16:24 PM)

subalps-
I insert anal beads into my sub ass or a remote vibe in her pussy (or both lol) and we go to dinner.
the squirming as she seeks a comfortable spot is very interesting and humiliating... the orgasm is alwaus fun



subalps -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:21:40 PM)

thanks bindupnips - butt plug in public is on my list :)

delivery guy idea is also hot :)



coupleowl -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:27:17 PM)

I give my pet physical punishments infront of others. And like Bindurnips I'll inset objects into her, but again. I have her wear them when guests are present. Of course they don't know what's going on for the later. 



Focus50 -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:35:49 PM)

I'm always suspicious when a sub is sent to these boards to "come up with ideas" for their dom/master blah blah - it immediately *suggests* that the one charged to lead and set the required example etc doesn't have any ideas of their own - nor the courage and self-esteem to say as much.
 
So here's an idea; rather than make it a task for you how about making it an exercise in communication for *both* of you and brainstorm together!  Once you've compiled a "data-base" to experiment with, then come and seek more ideas....
 
Anyhoo, as much as I seem to be able to rub certain people the wrong way with it, I'm a fan of the "little things"...  Sometimes as a precurser to a scene, I'll have the girl strip down just to her panties, tie her hands behind and then have her finish undressing - by any means she can think of (apart from asking me to assist).  Whether she can actually do it or not is irrelevant as that's not the object of the task; entertaining me *is*....  Call it an "entree"....  lol
 
Focus.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:38:41 PM)

OP ~
 
I'd caution you against choosing activities that involve the non-consenting public.  The delivery guy idea might be amusing, but is in poor taste.  A better idea might be to answer the door for a delivery person wearing a very unconventional (but not overly revealing) outfit...say a clown suit or a Little Bo Peep costume.



Maya2001 -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 4:50:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

OP ~
 
I'd caution you against choosing activities that involve the non-consenting public.  The delivery guy idea might be amusing, but is in poor taste.  A better idea might be to answer the door for a delivery person wearing a very unconventional (but not overly revealing) outfit...say a clown suit or a Little Bo Peep costume.


I agree ...here is another example of poor judgement and why  http://www.collarchat.com/m_1465008/mpage_1/tm.htm

this post here  you may get some ideas from
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1469148/mpage_1/tm.htm




EldroRolod -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 6:39:11 PM)

The first humiliating thing you should do is say to your Master, "If I have to tell you how to dominate and humiliate me, perhaps I should find a new Master."  I'm sure that would result in some interesting punishment and humiliation.  LOL

Now if this list was to be of ways to submit, or services to render without being prompted, that would be a topic I'm sure you could get alot of input about.



subalps -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 8:30:27 PM)

hi all,

i think i may have worded this all wrong.

my master is quite forceful, choosing how i behave, dress, etc.

this is not a matter of him not knowing how to dominate me. his been doing it for many, many years and i was quickly put in my place from the first day or so of dating him.

this was designed to be more of a game ... a game of chance. i put in some options, he puts in a few, we shake the hat and luck deals the fate. we were intending to play it once a week.

B



Leatherist -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 10:06:59 PM)

wear this: http://www.savingadvice.com/images/blog/hello-kitty-plush-dress.jpg



MasterZen22 -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 10:25:01 PM)

1. (not for the faint of heart) Go to a sex shop, with your master, wearing some old T-Shirt and sweat pats. While you are there throw away the clothes you wore in, you will never see them again(that is why you made sure they were old)

You must then cruise the shop naked and buy something from the shop to wear home.

2. Go out to a very fancy restaurant with one of those "vibrator eggs" inserted inside you, the kind with a remote control. Give the remote control to your master and let him play with you all night long... unbeknownst to the public



subalps -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 11:13:09 PM)

masterzen22,

this is the sort of stuff im looking for though i doubt i have the guts to go through with the first one :)

thanks heaps,

B



CalifChick -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 11:42:40 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterZen22

1. (not for the faint of heart) Go to a sex shop, with your master, wearing some old T-Shirt and sweat pats. While you are there throw away the clothes you wore in, you will never see them again(that is why you made sure they were old)

You must then cruise the shop naked and buy something from the shop to wear home.


You might want to rethink shopping naked in a store open to the public. At the very least, call them in advance and ask them if it's okay.  And you might want to make sure the sex shop actually sells something you could wear as clothing without getting a ticket and/or arrested for indecent exposure on your way home.

Cali



Leatherist -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/6/2008 11:46:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterZen22

1. (not for the faint of heart) Go to a sex shop, with your master, wearing some old T-Shirt and sweat pats. While you are there throw away the clothes you wore in, you will never see them again(that is why you made sure they were old)

You must then cruise the shop naked and buy something from the shop to wear home.


You might want to rethink shopping naked in a store open to the public. At the very least, call them in advance and ask them if it's okay.  And you might want to make sure the sex shop actually sells something you could wear as clothing without getting a ticket and/or arrested for indecent exposure on your way home.

Cali



If the shop owner doesn't call the cops first. Do people think about REALITY before they post this balderdash? [8D]



subalps -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/7/2008 12:18:48 AM)

quote:

If the shop owner doesn't call the cops first. Do people think about REALITY before they post this balderdash? [8D]


100% agree with your note of caution. Luckily for us, we can make the distinction between fantasy and reality easily.



DarkSteven -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/7/2008 3:27:07 AM)

Go to a street corner and make a public speech justifying the current administration.



xxblushesxx -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/7/2008 10:30:16 AM)

Just as an aside regarding the UPS dude; he might not *want* to see you naked. I suggest not doing that.

How about this one? Wear something sort of slutty. Go to the grocery store, and using the little cart they have for kids, buy a very large cucumber, a banana, some whipped cream, some warming gel, and lots of lube. As your paying for them, ask the checkout person when the cucumbers are normally restocked.



Thadius -> RE: Submissive idea please? (7/7/2008 1:17:26 PM)

**Fast Reply**

Something caught me in my reading of this thread, and perhaps it is just me.  In the first post you state that you are a submissive wife, and then in a later post you talk about dating your master.  Perhaps, informing your husband of what you are up to might be humiliating and provide some entertainment.  I could have misunderstood, and this master could be your husband, but it just kind of stood out.

Good luck with what you are doing,
Thadius



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