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TermsConditions -> RE: The Conversation (7/19/2008 9:13:56 PM)
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Sorry for the spelling. It's been an ineresting week. Thanks again to everyone for their great advice, intrest, and support.
To paraphrase, no plan survives it's implementation. In retrospect the timing was not great. My efforts at directing our conversation were consistenly redirected as were my efforts to set the conversation in more agreeable settings.
There was no "black box" but my initial effort cratered badly. I was describing her dominant attributes that I admire and my efforts to make her life easier and how fulfilling it is for me to please her. The conversation was diverted for ~ 45 minutes on mostly unrelated topics and then She lept forward and blurted "You want to be tied down and beaten?" I stammered that that was roughly in the ballpark. And that was the end of our first talk.
The next morning she woke me up climbed on top of me and held my arms over my head and we both had a wonderful time. We've revisited our Conversation a couple of times. She's very much latched onto the sex / play aspect of D/s but is still ruminating on other aspects of they dynamic. I'm still doing laundry, doing dishes, running errands, clearing the honey do list, massages, foot rubs, etc. and it fits her like a glove. She is so dom but doesn't seem to see it. She was laying on the couch and I was rubbing her feet and she was talking. I got up and got her a glass of wine.She reached toward me and took the glass as she continued talking as I continued to rub her feet. She never broke her cadence, never looked at me and never said anything about the wine. It was as natural for her to expect those things from me as her taking a breath.
I may have awoken a sleeping giant. lol
How did the conversation go? I swear I have no idea.Good? Maybe?
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