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Foot fetish, Catholic upbringing, submissive...oh, my. - 7/9/2008 3:40:40 PM

TomBelow

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Considering how much luck I've had meeting lovely folks on a certain vanilla dating site, this still feels very, very new to me.

Although my relationship was doomed to fail, a submissive can learn a lot from a submissive. It wasn't even so much the question of submissiveness as it was the assurance that pursuing one's fetishes is fairly vital to contentment. I've spent over 15 years sneaking around my tastes. To be fair, most of the women I've dated and been with have been tolerant and even appreciative of my submission and enthusiastic attention to their feet. Sadly, the submission occasionally leads to feelings of guilt on their part and thus we have a problem. Ah, well.

So, I'm here to approach these needs in a straightforward way. I'm a bit skittish for the moment, but let's face it. I suspect that my sense of cautious intimidation will part of my momentary appeal.

The account has been made (hey, where did all my paragraph breaks go!?) and hopefully my pictures will be approved sooner rather than later.

For now, I want to look around and find stimulating, intelligent conversation with good-hearted, like-minded folks who can teach me a thing or two.

Merci beaucoup!

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RE: Foot fetish, Catholic upbringing, submissive...oh, my. - 7/12/2008 1:04:59 AM

Freakgirl4

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Putting your best foot forward then?
Sorry,I couldn't resist! Hello Tombelow...
I can totally commiserate/relate to your statement:
**It wasn't even so much the question of submissiveness as it was the assurance that pursuing one's fetishes is fairly vital to contentment. I've spent over 15 years sneaking around my tastes.**(someone wanna teach me tht neat quote trick..please?)
It sucks that you spent that long not truly being happy...I just spent a few years and it sadens me how much time I wasted!
Meh--glad you are off to find what you need now....

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RE: Foot fetish, Catholic upbringing, submissive...oh, my. - 7/12/2008 8:06:49 AM

DaddyDragon41

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Can appreciate what you both have stated, when I started to understand who I was and this life, BEFORE I met my mentor I swore if I did this I could never be a dom or master, why because I was a good person and never would want to hurt or abuse ANYONE! (Saw to muich of that garbage growing up and since then.)

But when I met my mentor he taught me something important, that helping someone bring out there real needs and hungers safely was a good thing and caring when done right. Because of that it was OKAY to enjoy what you are doing with them. It is only when you use those real hungers to destroy the soul/psychie/ID which ever term you wish that its abuse.

So I understand TomBelow why they felt the guilt, if you break in any newbie with your needs I would recommend showing them that is a hunger need you have and that you need them to safely bring it out..........and that its okay shoot even their "reward" to enjoy it by helping you.

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