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AAkasha -> RE: Porn (7/11/2008 7:56:33 AM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyLou
I have been a bit of a lurker here lately, but felt compelled to respond to this thread, as it resonates with me also. First things first though, hello :D
It’s a sad fact that ‘femdom’ porn seems male focused, because it is, that is where the big money is. The porn industry is about making money, and when it comes to femdom porn, most directors that make it just don’t have a clue, and cater to the angle they know that will make them money safely, hence why most of it is rubbish.
I actually think it’s a slight underestimation of the quality femdom porn market, I think there are also a lot of male subs who would buy into it as well, nowhere as near as much as the pantomime femdom porn, but I think femdom porn directed towards women, will inadvertently interest some male subs (please raise your hands if this is you lol), thus making it commercially viable.
I would pay, for quality porn that appeals to me. I’ve been looking for some for a long time, and found nothing but clichéd tripe. There have been times where I have been so dissatisfied with the quality of femdom porn, that I have considered making my own; I was so motivated by the utter tripe available that I went and did some long research into making my own femdom porn.
My femdom porn wish list:
I have various ideas for what I want to see, but the most important aspect is intensity and passion. Virtually all porn is lacklustre, stiff and comical. I want to see the participants *really* into it. Chemistry is SO important. As someone mentioned, I want to see the subtlety of the responses and interaction, as well as the more overt.
If the passion, intensity and chemistry is right, it doesn’t matter what the people look like, and to a certain extent, the activities.
Another thing that bothers me about femdom (and mainstream) porn, is the obsession with cock. I don’t care for close up shots of it, I don’t want to see a man frantically beating it off trying to stay hard for hours. I want to deal with the erection when I am ready and when/if I want it. Until then, it isn‘t important, it gets ignored, and he is my play thing - I want to see this reflected in femdom porn. The disproportionate male focus in any porn is big a turn off for me.
The whole, ‘weak male pig’ thing is a complete turn off as well.
And yeah, I agree about some femdon porn ‘storylines’ being about hating men, I don't want to see that, I can't relate to it. I want to see it from the angle of attraction, and doing it because they like each other… because BDSM is how they express their lust, as this is the angle I relate to.
I honestly get fed up with leather/pvc clad men and women in femdom porn, to me it’s the signature of bad femdom porn. I want to see realistic looking people. I want to see curvy attractive fem doms, and realistically/naturally attractive guys.
If it has a storyline, it needs to be a good, realistic plot and great storyline. A leather clad woman carrying a crop under her skirt, whilst watching over a male plumber in her kitchen is not realistic lol, and obviously catering to men. If it is a fantasy, then I want to see it treated as such, with a top notch story line and actors that can carry it off.
I also don’t want to see the woman ‘doing all the stuff’ to the man whilst he lays back and laps it up all the time. Whilst I want to see him being played and toyed with, and want to see his reaction to it, I’m also a sensation hedonist, and want to vicariously experience her getting pleasured and receiving. To me BDSM/domination isn’t necessarily about the male being passive, it's about the male pleasing whether that be in a passive or active role.
Oh, and the most important thing - no fake orgasms! Another thing that is lacking in femdom (and vanilla) porn, is the genuine female orgasm, and the route that gets her there. I want to see femdom porn focused on the female orgasm - pretty much all porn I have seen, regardless of genre, lacks this. It’s almost as if it’s non existent, and when it does show it, it’s invariably fake, instantaneous, at the whim of the male, and achieved unrealistically.
Woah, that is a long list lol. So, uhhh, anybody know of any femdom porn like that? ;) I can’t believe there is not a market for all that is in my femdom porn wish list lol.
I'm with you on the entire wishlist. However, there's a big problem: budget.
You want a good story line with a plot? That requires a great script and believable actors. Not likely found in porn.
You want intensity and passion? That comes from not only chemistry, but great lighting, editing and music. Not likely found in porn.
There's a whole list of reasons why porn in general can never be stylistically and passionately sound - it's not porn any longer, it's a feature film, or a short film - and with all those films come huge budgets, and still, often fall flat because it's so hard to get that to work. I think that's the big challenge.
I'm all about finding a solution though - that isn't about hundreds of thousands of dollars, of course...
Akasha
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