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Our "Playroom" - 7/10/2008 4:40:49 PM

cuckeeeboi

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Please share Your additional thoughts about the future "playroom" that I will offer my future lifelong Mistress.

We'll have a two-story home. Upstairs will be "our" bedroom and a guest bedroom.

Downstairs wil be our "playroom", where Mistress will enjoy Her studs, with or without my being present, as Her cuckold.

It will be secured with a lock, from the inside. It will have a kingsize bed, mirrors on the ceiling, a private full bath, a mini-fridge, a closet also stocked with assorted clothing, and BDSM accessories, a stereo, TV, a telephone, and will be climate controlled.

Do You have other suggestions to make this playroom more pleasurable my Mistress?

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RE: Our "Playroom" - 7/10/2008 4:47:31 PM

firstslaveca

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yes....ask your Mistress what SHE would like

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RE: Our "Playroom" - 7/10/2008 4:54:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: firstslaveca

yes....ask your Mistress what SHE would like

Smiles..... you beat me to it... Well you didnt beat me as such, you just answered first.

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RE: Our "Playroom" - 7/10/2008 5:17:44 PM

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Hmm...yep, what firstslaveca said. It's always wisest to let the woman do the decorating. However, I do have a few questions. I hope you'll bear with me.

Why is the playroom downstairs? Is it in the basement for that "dungeon" feel? Is it for space consideration? Why do you want her to have a room with you and a play room? If you think she'd like a separate room, why not make it the other bedroom upstairs? If I were going to cuckold someone, it would be in the same room as I slept with him. If I allowed him to share a room with me at all, which is by no means certain.

I'm just curious about how you see your dynamic proceeding. I hope you'll humor me and share your thoughts.

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RE: Our "Playroom" - 7/10/2008 6:38:29 PM

SurrenderForMe

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I agree with the general consensus.

If someone said a playroom had been put together just for me, they would be risking their ego and potentially the relationship. The reason for the ego is that my ideas would probably conflict. The relationship, because, I would have just been told that my wishes were not a consideration. That is such a cliche of what I have encountered in general, that it would remove any benefit.

How to decorate a playroom for me, tell me the budget, let me know what you can and can't do yourself and ask me to consider items that you find interesting. That is the kind of gift that is a perfect fit, because I would be catering to myself. It is so hard to regift a playroom. LOL

Good luck

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RE: Our "Playroom" - 7/10/2008 10:23:32 PM

HarryVanWinkle

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From your post and your profile, I gather that as yet you have no idea who your "future lifelong Mistress" will be and that as yet, you don't have this two story home, nor even know where it will be. Yet, you have the relationship and the house pretty well all planned out.

No offense intended, but it seems to me that you're letting your fantasies get way too far ahead of your realities.

If, as the first line of your profile proclaims "IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU," don't you think that the "YOU" you're addressing might want to have just a little bit of say in how things are going to be?

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