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ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

An indicator of dissociative identity disorder (most commonly known as multiple personality disorder) and other dissociative disorders is the individual blacking out or having periods of time that they don't remember. PTSD can precipitate a dissociative state, and traumatic brain injury can also cause someone to have real memory problems. Is he a war vet? (Not saying all war vets have PTSD or traumatic brain injury, of course.) Did he suffer childhood abuse?
Since a person with these kinds of memory problems may say or do things or have whole periods of time that they genuinely don't remember, such a person may commit a crime and then not remember it, or confess to it and then not remember the confession. Things like that. These people will vehemently deny those things that they really don't remember saying or doing, because of course they really have no recollection of it.

This sounds like what you're dealing with. If not, and he's really just purposely fucking with you, either way he's one seriously AFU (All Fucked Up) guy, and you should run as far away from him as fast as you can, to save yourself.
You cannot save him from himself. So save yourself from him.

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ORIGINAL: uninterested5

I'm going to let you in on a little secret. A lot of guys that like sitting in the "Dom" chair have huge bullshit insecurity complexes. And by "a lot," I mean most, and by "most" I mean pretty much all. What it sounds like to me is that your "Master" is not straight. Whether he's bisexual, just curious, or a good old fashioned closet commando, he brought up to you that he wants a guy. That was initially probably just to see how you'd react to it, which is representative to him of how other people in his life would react to it.

Long story short, he's probably embarassed he brought up wanting to try being with a dude since such an admission can be easily seen as castrating and disempowering. On top of lying, he probably has got no clue what he wants sexually or relationship-wise. Either break up with him or get used Bullshitville, population you and "Master."

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ORIGINAL: uninterested5

You say tomato, I say fuckin' a dude. And yeah, how dare I say something about the mental health scam err profession. What incentive would multi-million dollar medical practices and multi-billion dollar pharmecutical companies have from convincing the general public it has a disorder it needs the doctor to diagnose and the drugs to fix? I'm just a cynical asshole, how dare I doubt something as clearly benign and long-historied as the pharmecutical industry?

However, don't get winded from that little jog down Common Sense Boulevard, there are bigger fish to fry in this thread.

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ORIGINAL: uninterested5

I am not trying to insult you in any way but I really feel like I am trying to explain this to a small child or someone with a cognitive disability. Firstly, he says he wants a male slave around. Take that however way you want, but for those with common sense, there's only one way that CAN be taken: he has sexual interest in men.

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ORIGINAL: MusicalBoredom

Ok on topic first.  I have seen what happens when someone else has gained someone's userid/password on multiple online sites.  What happens is that some ass starts sending all sorts of nonsense to people that make the real user seem gay/pervy/assholeish or whatever.  I certainly can't say that's what happened here but it could be very a very easy explanation for the real person to have no idea what was said under the imposter's session.  Easy enough to fix, use voice or phone as verification and change passwords on the account and the backing email account.
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ORIGINAL: angelstrands

please can anyone give some advice to something that has been an ongoing problem in a relationship?,  the Dom in question often had told me lies.