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chamberqueen -> RE: Symbols, protocal and how new are you? (7/13/2008 8:43:39 AM)
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I think it boils down to whatever floats your boat. I am a collared slave - sometimes I wear my collar when my Master visits, sometimes I don't. The meaning behind it means much more to us than whether I grab it out of the drawer before He comes. Our relationship is not big on protocols. About the only one is that I am to address Him as Sir or Daddy instead of by name unless we are in public.
One of my tasks was to find a female sub. I prefer public meeting places and getting to know someone a little in person before jumping into anything. You can get a good feel for how nervous they are, whether they are comfortable around you, and there is no pressure of knowing that you will immediately jump into a session. Some women have been taken in by men who are very charming on the phone or internet but are truly sadistic in person. For me it is a case of better safe than sorry.
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