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hisleogirl -> Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 12:24:59 AM)

In order to fill the online/telephone desires of another, I am searching for any information on how to, in his words "torture" his balls.
He likes to have them slapped, and squeezed (as hard as possible)




EvilGenie -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 12:51:43 AM)

When I lived in the UK I had a Dominant female friend who ran her stiletto; attached to her foot and body through a man's scrotum. She was kind enough to give him a towel and a ride to the hospital after though. [:'(]




HeavansKeeper -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 1:05:30 AM)

A call girl friend of mine says that icy-hot is like liquid CBT... I've never tried it and never will.  I don't know how safe it is, but I assume the worst risk is chemical burns.




Leatherist -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 1:07:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hisleogirl

In order to fill the online/telephone desires of another, I am searching for any information on how to, in his words "torture" his balls.
He likes to have them slapped, and squeezed (as hard as possible)


tiger balm.




hisleogirl -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 1:07:52 AM)

lol...his wife may object to the stiletto!  Not because she makes use of said balls anymore, but still wants to own them!




undergroundsea -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 1:13:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist
tiger balm.


Rubbing mint toothpaste also creates a burning sensation.

It seems he favors impact. The topic that covers your question is CBT, which stands for cock and ball torture. Searching for CBT should bring up plenty of stuff in past threads and the internet. In addition to techniques, there are safety considerations, I am sure.

There is a book by Hardy Haberman that focuses on the subject. It is called Family Jewels.

Cheers,

Sea




EvilGenie -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 1:16:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hisleogirl

lol...his wife may object to the stiletto!  Not because she makes use of said balls anymore, but still wants to own them!


Well............she can own broken balls and still own them right? [:D]




hisleogirl -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 1:37:29 AM)

lol....she tried to own them by forbidding him contact with me instead. I may only be rated "vanilla" (ahem...for now!) but I definitely own them! Many Thanks for supplying this newbie with some info....hmmmm....i wonder what my reward will be for having done the requested homework!




undergroundsea -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 7:05:45 AM)

Does is not matter how his wife feels about him playing outside their marriage?

Cheers,

Sea




HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 8:45:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hisleogirl
lol....she tried to own them by forbidding him contact with me instead. I may only be rated "vanilla" (ahem...for now!) but I definitely own them! Many Thanks for supplying this newbie with some info....hmmmm....i wonder what my reward will be for having done the requested homework!


He may say you own them.  You may think you own them.  But it seems to me that the Deed is in his wife's name.




hisleogirl -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 9:06:03 AM)

the deed...what does that even mean?




undergroundsea -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 9:41:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: hisleogirl
the deed...what does that even mean?


It means that marriage takes precedence both legally and socially. For him, each the legal and social aspect is relevant. For you, the social aspect is relevant. Most people who play with a married person care about the spouse's consent and would find the disregard for the spouse inappropriate.

Cheers,

Sea





CallaFirestormBW -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 12:03:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: hisleogirl

the deed...what does that even mean?


A deed is the way property ownership is determined... in this case, the property in question is this man's balls. Like the Brooklyn Bridge and a shady real-estate salesman, he may -attempt- to convince you that you've bought them, but until there is no longer a marriage license, that marriage license says those balls belong to his wife -- if you're not on the deed, you don't own the property.

Calla Firestorm




EvilGenie -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/14/2008 10:31:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

quote:

ORIGINAL: hisleogirl
lol....she tried to own them by forbidding him contact with me instead. I may only be rated "vanilla" (ahem...for now!) but I definitely own them! Many Thanks for supplying this newbie with some info....hmmmm....i wonder what my reward will be for having done the requested homework!


He may say you own them.  You may think you own them.  But it seems to me that the Deed is in his wife's name.


Oh Harry truer words have never been spoken. Well, okay perhaps they have, but in regards to ball ownership I dare say not.




Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/16/2008 2:43:33 PM)

Don't overlook the simple but effective standbys of rubber bands and clothespins.

The rubber bands can be lifted and snapped back for extra zing, and the clothespins actually hurt more coming off (after having been on a while) than coming off.




joyinslavery -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/16/2008 9:29:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: hisleogirl

He likes to have them slapped, and squeezed (as hard as possible)



Guess I'd recommend slapping and squeezing as hard as possible (???). 

I dunno.  What do YOU think? 

Have fun.   




SurrenderForMe -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/16/2008 10:10:28 PM)

If he likes them slapped and squeezed, I'd go with slapping and squeezing them.  Unless he is a sub, then I wouldn't.  lol

There is a clamp sold for castrating horses.  The penis and scrotum of a man will fit through easily.  Be carefull tightening, it can catch.  In iteslf, something that makes me laugh, but the little masochists don't appreciate me rolling on the floor laughing. 

Parachute, can be bought at most kinky suppliers.  Add weights, you get balls squeezed and also pulled.

Wooden kitchen spoons sold everywhere.  Make a nice paddle.  Low to mid level pain player can handle that.  A metal table or serving spoon ups the intensity. 

Snap elastic bands, wet wash cloth, penis whips.

Shish kebab skewers and elastic bands.  You can cut some in half.  Add tape to prevent accidental piercing.  Place horizontally at base of balls, then add elastic band at either end to desired  tightness.  Works on nipples, clits, penises, tongues, as well.  You can alternated sticking skewers between in a T on front and back.  Squeezes in two directions.  Add rubber bands to the bottom, the top is held in place by the skewers they are inserted between.

Your hands over his hands squeezing his balls.  Verbal direction is for him to squeeze as hard as he can, then tell him harder. 

Unplug a sandwich press.  I'll let you take it from there.

A hardcover book, open in the middle.  A fat but small book.  Slam it shut.  Start soft and build up to find limits of sub and his body.

String tied around the base of the balls and separating the balls.  Leave a few feet extra.  Wrap extra around base.  Leave on for a while.  To remove pull carefully from below.  Spinning top effect.  Plus as the blood returns to the balls, nice pain effect.  Can be used on the penis as well.

Shring wrap on the penis.  Have safety scissors ready.  Also wrap a straw, cut off to length, in between the balls.  Heat with hair dryer, sometimes it takes too long for safety to shrink in one pass so heat until he can't stand it and you think it might damage and then take a break.  You can always ice him in between.   You don't have to mention it is for safety, it causes interesting reactions.  The straw allows you to get in with the scissors to cut if off without breaking his dangly bits.

There are some clays that shrink as they harden, need to look for fast drying.  Put him in a clay cast.  Let it dry, tightens as it dries. 

Buy a bag of elasting bands and a straw.  Put on several bands, with the straw in between balls.  Play with other areas and go back occassionally to add another band.  Do this over time.  He will definitely feel squeezed.

Going out with items attached can be interesting.  Take safety scissors with you.

Have fun.




joyinslavery -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/17/2008 1:42:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

If he likes them slapped and squeezed, I'd go with slapping and squeezing them. 

Have fun.





You forgot  "I dunno.  What do YOU think?"

Oh wait!  You also forgot to mention the ball hammer. 

Have fun.





bipolarber -> RE: Searching for highly specific info (7/17/2008 2:55:22 PM)

There was a thread some months back on testicle "milking." My current partner and I tried it and I found it to be wonderfully intense... and only got more so as time went on. I haven't orgasmed to it yet, but it's definitely kept me teetering on edge.

Another Domme, of whom I'm still extremely fond, had a great technique of wrapping my balls with a long leather shoelace, and then hung a child's sand bucket from them... She would then proceed to slowly add marbles to the bucket until I couldn't take the weight anymore... surprisingly, I managed over 10 pounds one night... supporting their pull for almost 10 minutes. A personal best!





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