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May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 6:32:52 AM

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A short time ago there was a thread on here about humiliating things that a domme can do to a sub. There was a post by Mistress Kim saying that she used a product called "Smoulder" that gave an intense burning sensation when applied to male genitals. She mentioned that there was a neutralizer made for the product. I checked with several tanning salons, and all knew of the product, but not the neutralizer. When I emailed Kim, she said she would get back to me in a few days, and I haven't heard from or seen her online since. I'm wondering if any others know of the neutralizer, and where it can be purchased? Thanks for your help.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 8:05:24 AM

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I looked at her profile & it appears that she is still using the site. If she has not replied it is either because she doesn't wish to or maybe it slipped through the cracks & she forgot.

As to a neutralizer for this product... I would suggest reading the label. Typically products will make a statement on products

examples:
*flush eyes with water for 30 mins
* drink milk & call a physician

There must be a contact number or address for the manufacturer of this product... try contacting them & see what they suggest.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 8:24:43 AM

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Thank you. I'll try your suggestions. I'm sure she just let it slip her mind, so I'll try to contact her again.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 9:12:50 AM

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I don't know what this Smoulder product is, but one genius tip from Hardy Haberman regarding oil based hot stuff----Dawn dishwashing soap makes them settle right down! Wish I had known that when I was having a Keystone Kops moment at a bachelor apartment........

Ms Francine

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 10:30:06 AM

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quote:

She mentioned that there was a neutralizer made for the product.

This is an indoor tanning product with tingler, right?
I have been tanning for 15 years....when i go today i will check with the salon and see what they recommend. I'll get back with you as soon as i know something.

cathy

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 8:12:16 PM

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Yes it is. I appreciate the effort. Thank you very much.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/13/2005 10:18:36 PM

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I've never done tanning---what is the purpose of the tingler lotion in the tanning context?

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/14/2005 2:59:31 AM

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i would like to know if this product would be more harmful to the female genital area as it can possibly enter her if not careful and what can be done in such a case.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/14/2005 4:35:46 AM

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This was originally posted on a thread about fun ways to torment a slave. It was described as "Icy Hot on Steriods". Lady Kay stated that she has used it, and the sub would do just about anything for a spritz of the neutralizer. She also said it can't be washed off since the burning is actually reactivated with water. It is supposed to be harmless except for the burning sensation.

I can see many ways a domme can use it to torment a male sub, but I am hesitant to try it without the neutralizer handy in case the burning sensation becomes too great. I have tried other products and found that although some are slightly uncomfortable for a period of time, they are tolorable. This product by the way it is described, is a step above the others.

I have called a few tanning salons, and all either carry it, or have heard of it, but none seem to know of the neutralizer, so I assume it was purchased seperately. It is my hope that Lady Kay or someone else will answer here as to what the neutralizer is, and where it can be bought.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/14/2005 5:50:21 AM

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google can be your friend

neutralizer:
http://www.themaxtan.com/sunsoothe/

FYI: While doing the search on this Smoulder product I saw several reviews, the users commented that they did not receive the intense tingle that they did with other products.

To tell you the truth... if it is a tingle you want, try Bengay muscle relief. I know from experience, which was a complete accident... that will light your nether regions up.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/14/2005 6:57:15 AM

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If the research was done on tanning sites, then the reviews probably are not from men who've had it rubbed into the skin on their penis and testicles. The skin there, as I'm sure you know is much more sensitive. I thank you for the effort. I would imagine that the Ben Gay muscle relief would react to water in much the same way other Ben Gay products, and will wash away. I think the kick for the domme using the Smoulder or similar product would be in the neutralizer. She controls that, so the sub has to endure the burning until it wears off naturally, which I am told is 5-6 hours, or she decides to be merciful and give him a spray with lasts about 10-15 minutes before the burning returns. If the burning is intense enough, I can just picture the poor guy begging, and jumping through hoops in an effort to earn some relief, while the Mistress laughs at his plight.

Just as an added thought, if it does work as described, I would love to try it, but I would never tell a domme about the effects. I may be crazy, but I ain't stupid.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/14/2005 7:34:45 AM

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Mistress Passion,
Thank you so much for your help. Please excuse me for being so dumb, but after all I am a man. SUNSHINE, SUNSHINE, SUNSHINE.

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RE: May I ask for some help? - 11/14/2005 8:37:24 AM

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My experiements were with hot oils, specifically wintergreen and peppermint...........pure oils, from a cake decorating place. Serious FUN, but definitely keep the dawn dish soap handy! I absolutely wish I had known that as I went through cold cream, lotion, and finally Wesson oil. All while *laughing* silently since all he could say through his gag was a garbled "hot".

:)Francine

ps--lest you think I am less than fair, I had a cold towel between my legs for an hour to try and mask the gob of oil I dumped on my useful parts..........but I think I enjoyed it more!

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