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What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 12:55:34 PM

littleone35

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I have been in my relationship with Master for 2 1/2 years now. From the time Master met me, i have worn glasses. I can see without them( not read but see). I just see better with them. Now Master does not mind me in glasses he just perfers me without them ( mentioned this to Master he said i also perfer you without clothes but you don't run around naked lol). I take my glasses of when i am with him. To me it is not big deal and it makes him happy. I always want to make him happy.

What do you have/ do/ don't do that your Dom/me perfers?

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 1:07:56 PM

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i used to be a woman who would wear makeup everyday, not a lot mind you, but makeup. my Master doesnt like it, prefers my clean, naked face. So now, unless i have permission, i dont wear any makeup at all.

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 4:07:25 PM

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As to glasses, He may or may not prefer. I can see without, not well. If i dont wear them my eye sight, due to strain will deteriorate even faster. It isnt an option, hasnt even been discussed. I wear glasses, He lives with it.

Other stuff, comes under same rules. He may prefer, but if detrimental to my health and well being, it isnt happening.

There were things He knew before we met. If he then expected change he should have looked elsewhere, some things arent changeable.

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 4:16:46 PM

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Dom speaking...

OK, so I find this question a bit confusing. Perhaps I'm missing something but wouldn't you expect most/all subs/slaves to have a long long list of things that their Master prefers that they DO do.

Conversely, wouldn't you expect most/all subs/slaves to have a much shorter list of things that their Master prefers that they either cannot or will not do?

To the specific example provided about glasses, my wife is hard of hearing and has reading glasses. Much as I prefer her without the hearing aids AND without the glasses, it would never occur to me to make commands in that area because more than that, I prefer her to be able read her menu at the restaurant and be able to engage in conversations because she can hear. I have a hard time believing that there's any Master out there who has every single possible nook and cranny of his desires satisfied by his sub/slave. Making me "happy" is a complex thing with frequent internal inconsistencies (I want two things but can't have em both, for instance, no hearing aids but she can still hear the world around her). Between us, we do the best we can to navigate all that and get to a best fit answer.

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 4:17:00 PM

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Hello there,
When I was with the Man, he preferred me in pastel colors. I look like a dead person in pastels. sigh. So as soon as he saw me in them, we had a problem.... So here's how we handled it. He didn't like looking at a ghost, but he didn't like brash colors either... I wore a bright red scarf all the time with pastel clothes.

Ain't that sweet?
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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 4:21:01 PM

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I have known men who didnt like me in pastel colors. I have known men who didnt like be in richer colors. Now I spend my time with a man who likes me in all colors. He says I wear them all spectacularly. thats the one for me!

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 4:59:23 PM

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My Sir doesn't "prefer" - he either requires or doesn't have an opinion.

He requires me naked in the house - he doesn't have an opinion about makeup.

He requires me to serve his coffee on a tray, standing with my legs apart so he can see the rings he put in my labia - he doesn't have an opinion about what i order when we are out in public

He requires me to ask to go to the toilet - in public, i can go when i need to without asking for permission.

Basically, everything other than what he requires is up to me. I may ask him, and he may give an opinion, but ultimately it is up to me. I may make a decision skewed to what i may think he would enjoy or like, but i don't ask him a lot of opinions - i don't want to annoy him - hehehe- after all - if i annoy him, he may make me stand in the corner

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 8:28:29 PM

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Long hair has been the most consistent one.
I am not allowed to cut my hair above the bra strap. I've never gone this long without cutting it short again - so it's a constant reminder.

That said. . might I recommend contacts.

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/16/2008 8:52:13 PM

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My mom gave me one bottle of perfume for my birthday the year that she was going to let me wear it to school. I haven't bothered with it since junior high. However, my Sir likes perfume. So, we spent a lovely afternoon at the mall together with him getting my opinion on various scents then spraying certain body parts with one. Then we moved away from the fragrance counter and walked throughout the mall with him stopping me every once in a while to try to figure out which scent he liked best.

He bought me the perfume and I wear it as often as I can (I have a job that does not allow perfume at work). It's a lovely reminder of him on days that we can't be together.

little Aidan

[edited because I forgot the "little" part that Sir suggested I put with my new scene name... lol]

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/17/2008 6:01:30 AM

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My clothing styles have changed drasticly.
I used to tell people - I wore flats to my wedding. (first DH). Flat, white, satin, bling covered shoes, under a long white hoop skirted lace covered cofection with princess sleaves. I did wear heels to his funeral, so, apparently, it is possible to get me in heels - but marrying me is insufficent. You have to marry me, then die.
He has a serious heel fetish. Now I wear heels regularly, the higher the better, even in the house, and watch my poditrist pull his hair out.
I now wear skirts most places, and nice blouses, or dresses.
I love having my nails done. I like 'reverse french' colors, in drastic colors. He likes round or oval nails, dark or bright but classic colors. So that is what I wear. No more nail art.
I like bright, vibrant colors, and bling. He likes pastels. I wear a lot of pink, now.
The purse I owned when I met him is in the closet - big hobo bag make of suede patches and bling. I now carry the tiny pink leather clutch he gave me.
What we eat is based, to the best of my ability, on what he likes.
I try to remeber to sit with my ankles crossed and my knees together, his prefered posture.
Oh, and I now iron clothes. My sister, who I once made fun of when I discovered that she owned an iron, loves to laugh about THAT.

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RE: What does He perfer? - 7/17/2008 7:41:57 AM

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kikikat thank you for the suggestion about contacts, but with my certian type of vision problems contacts are not an option, but it was a good idea.

To all others than you for your responses.

Matt's littleone

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