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-=Caged Perspectives=-
I have an upcoming trial run with a potential slave to be. I was putting this together for her so she could learn a little about cages when I realized it might make for nice post.
Like everything in life, it is a matter of your perspectives. Not everyone gets the same thing out of an identical act. If a Top is trying to humiliate someone and tells them to strip but they are an exhibitionist… humiliation will fail. With this in mind I wrote the following so she could get the same thing from her cage time that I hope for.
Please feel free to reply with your comments, viewpoints, tips, methods and what caging means or feels like to you. I searched the forums and there were very few threads on this topic.
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-=The Meaning Behind Cage Time=-
Cage time is a very powerful thing for both of us.
For me the cage represents your proof of surrender through your sacrifice of freedom. You become my real captive in a real steel prison. You are not just a prisoner in some dull old cell but you are my slave in a “pretty red cage”. It is tangible proof that you surrender to me. I may not legally be able own you but this is as close as it gets to ownership because you are mine to keep… you can’t leave.
While caged you are fully at my mercy and I am totally responsible for your health and survival. Not only am I your captor, I am also your caretaker. I believe it is this caretaker role that limits the appeal of caging for some Dom/mes. I see the stupid comments in other’s threads implying that keeping someone captive and feeding them after you’ve just rendered them helpless makes you their nurse maid and their servant. What a crock of shit. If you have ever been responsible for someone else, it takes time, effort and money. It is a hell of lot cheaper and easier to keep some nekked in a cage than to pay for her, her cars, her food, her clothes, her health care, her education, her entertainment and etc. I wanted to post an answer in that thread that asked “how much does it cost to keep a slave”… the answer, “as much as $485,000.00 annually” LOL
If you like M/s, not D/s, not Topping, but Master/slave where "ownership" (not just authority) is the driving force, then caging is one of the better ways to get asclose to owning someone you can get. It is an awesome and powerful feeling because the reality of it is that you are truly responsible for the person in the cage.
I understand that even with bedpans and food trays, imprisoning someone requires a lot of effort from the captor. I’ve never had delusions that a relationship wasn’t a two way street. Both parties must be responsible to the relationship to affect an exchange. If you put yourself into my care and give me your freedom, I will gladly feed you and see that you’re well cared for while you are helpless in my captivity. To do less would be abuse in my opinion. That is why you get this night light & Teddy bears, nice snacks, a phone, a reading light and other forms of entertainment. That is why cage time include more personal freedoms like eating w/o permission, unfettered phone use and other entertainments like DVDs, books and the Internet. The cage is a symbol of our bond, our connection, our love and your trust. You bet your ass I’m going to make your time in there as nice as possible.
For you, I hope your cage time makes you feel helpless and at my mercy. I hope your cage time makes you feel connected to me through my display of mercy. On hope your take time teaches you to trust me in that I will take good care of you while you are at my mercy. I hope your cage time makes you feel like my pretty slave on display in my pretty red cage. I hope your cage time is a very reaffirming act of trust, love and reinforcement of our relationship role positions. I also hope your cage time gives you plenty of opportunity and material for your posts in This thread is ORGASMIC.
For you, cage time should be your own proof of surrender and proof of my ability to accept and take care of what you surrender… yourself.
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-=The Cage Set Up=-
The romantic cage
A cage built for 2 - nothing is quite as peaceful or romantic. A Master’s pad on top and a slave pad inside. It’s nice for the captive because cage time in my house allows unfettered access to the slave snacks, internet, phone, DVD player etc.
I really like cages and I had two cages until I moved a few months ago. The red cage was originally black in color when it started life. I had it painted Ferrari red. It has seen 2 long term occupants.
Had 2 cages, this is the one that now resides at Master's Quest
When red cage was black - slave donna & cage story
Red cage - slave aimee story, 6 months in cage
Some assembly required
Slave pad - emergency light - top pad off
Top is Master's pad & makes bondage table
Rigging brackets to save floor space
The water bottle can be sexy
Food dish rack
Food dish & Puppy Chow
Pet toys & canned roast beef makes good wet pet food
Kitty mask
Food & water - inside view
Setting up linens
Finished and ready to use
A cage night light for puppen
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Longest time caging a slave
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