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Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 6:15:37 AM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		What drops you hard and fast?
Last night, we were not even playing. We had played earlier, and it was very nice. Later, we were just goofing off while Master worked at continueing to put away things in the dungeon (moving in jobs. we should be all done in a couple of years...)
I was talking about how much i wanted to be trained to get my elbows to touch. He went and got some rope, and tried it, and decided he needed something different. He went to get something else, i sat on the bed to wait for him and tried to posistion myself so he could work with the bonds most easily.
He brought back a leather strap and put it around my elbows, and i DROPED. I have never dropped from just bondage. When we are getting ready to play, i might sub out a little from letting myself get into the fear when he is setting things up. And certain things sub me a bit - our cuffs, because they mean something to us, and steel - i do have a steel fetish. But never really just seriously DROPPED.
He was behind me, couldn't see my face. He didn't relize I had dropped as I had. I got silent (not just quiet - even my breathing was slow and quiet), so he thought I was struggling with pushing the limits of what I was (physically) comfortable with, so he kept asking 'still okay?' at some point I managed one word 'tighter', and then he tightened them, and i finished dropping to the point that i was absolutely in another world. Talking was no longer a possiblity. I was simply GONE.
When he took it off, he wsa playing around and swatted me with the leather straps. about 20 mins, half an hour later, when I was coming back to solid ground, i said, 'hey, that hurts - did you HIT me with that?'
Anyone else have any experience with dropping like that - i mean, hard, fast, sudden, and not related to anything that 'classicly' brings forth the endorphins - not pain, or exercise, ect. ?

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 6:28:22 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Do you mean drop or subspace?
I think of emotionally sad when I think of dropping.

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 6:42:07 AM   
tsatske


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Status: offline 		yes, I mean dropping like deeper subspace.
although it did result in a subdrop, later, when we were done, mostly because he walked away to put things away, because he was not aware I had dropped into such a deep subspace, so he didn't get back to hold me and give me after care, so when he came back i was curled up in a fetal position around my pillow.
IME, subdrop comes from insufficent aftercare, so it very seldom happens in my life. And he fixes it, when it does. :).

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 9:57:42 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Bondage always does that to me. Blindfold, bondage, gag. If he doesn't add stimulation, just puts a light blanket over me, then I space out. But yeah, doing it after sex does produce deep space.

And I'm laughing at you saying twenty minutes later that it hurt. Did he know what you were referring to?

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 11:30:06 AM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske

yes, I mean dropping like deeper subspace.
although it did result in a subdrop, later, when we were done, mostly because he walked away to put things away, because he was not aware I had dropped into such a deep subspace, so he didn't get back to hold me and give me after care, so when he came back i was curled up in a fetal position around my pillow.
IME, subdrop comes from insufficent aftercare, so it very seldom happens in my life. And he fixes it, when it does. :).


What I think you were referring to in your first post is a submissive headspace...the kind of place that makes you really open to submitting. Kind of like submissive fuzzies. Not subspace. Also, subdrop does not come from insufficient aftercare, nor does it come immediately following a scene. Subdrop is the body readjusting after a chemical overload that comes during a scene, and usually doesn't manifest for 24 to 48 hours after.

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 1:23:36 PM   
ThundersCry


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Status: offline 		 I knew what you were refering to just by the topic...you posted...
 
Have I been...*there* ....Yes...
 
Have I had someone submit to me this way as well...Yes...
 
I refer it to...mental submission...It may fall under the catagory of *psychological bdsm*.....stuff
 
I as well call it a....drop...juat a different...kind
 
Powerfull stuff...
 
Enjoy....entering into another...realm...

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 2:44:47 PM   
eienKuraiTenshi


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Status: offline 		Oh gods yes... There are moments when Sir and myself are in His bed together, i am lieing in front of him and on my side. He is behind me, we are in the spooning position but, fully clothed. He is holding me tightly, softly speaking directly into my ear about how much he loves me, how much i mean to him. Then the conversation turns a bit but, not toaly off the track and slowly he slips things in there. I drop like an old plushy doll. I am not even sure always what exactly He is saying. We jokingly call it brain washing. In some ways thats what it is and yes, sex does follow... from what i remember it is usually amazingly delicious talk about how much i need him, and how blissful seving him makes me feel. And well after 4 and a half years, it isn't like i doubt these things for a moment. He is so good at making me feel absolutely beautiful and loved.

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/17/2008 4:14:27 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Most commonly, a face slap will drop me fast.

But it's generally not the act or toy or type of kink- it's the connection and context and strength of that coming towards me.

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/18/2008 12:21:50 PM   
IvyMorgan


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Status: offline 		I have a drop trigger, which, when done right, sends me right under :)

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/21/2008 5:52:51 PM   
DominaSmartass


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tsatske
Anyone else have any experience with dropping like that - i mean, hard, fast, sudden, and not related to anything that 'classicly' brings forth the endorphins - not pain, or exercise, ect. ?


I can speak for my boy, not for myself. This is something that made him instantly drop. I was caning him one night, a couple of weeks ago and he was going along as normal, which is all well and good cause he tends to get into it pretty well anyway, but then I stopped for a minute and asked him, "Are you my good boy?" "Yes Sir!" he said, very emphatically of course. So I then told him, "My good boy would be asking for more. My good boy would be begging me to hit him harder and make him hurt and not stop!" So the next thing I know, he's begging and pleading and whimpering all at the same time. It was amazing, almost like hypnosis or at least strong suggestion. Afterwards when he was back to normal he commented how freaky it was and how he just felt so deep in subspace unlike any other time, and just felt compelled to follow my suggestion. To me, that's kind of a quick drop that had nothing to do with the "classic" stuff you mentioned.

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/21/2008 8:10:50 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		Nope, not yet!  But I am new, so I am still finding out a lot of thing.  Would soooo love to find a thing or two or five hundred that just sends me zooming!  Hope you can have a repeat performance and that this time you are both aware of how quickly mental states can shift. 

Warm fuzzies,
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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/21/2008 10:18:21 PM   
summersprite


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Status: offline 		I can definitely enter a 'sub headspace' with my Sir. I haven't found 'subspace' yet but we are discussing ways of getting there :-)
But there are certainly times when i just go to a 'strange place' in my mind where i'm totally accepting of whatever He does to me.... i feel drugged, yet i'm not. Delicious feeling ....

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RE: Drop like a rock - 7/21/2008 10:58:14 PM   
lilonepet


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Status: offline 		i am drawn to Sir very strongly the connection i have to him is like nothing i have everr experienced.  there are times that Sirs written words to me will put me in subspace

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