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RE: Why are you a "slave" and not "sub&q... - 8/4/2008 4:55:20 AM

MsArcEnCiel

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RE: Why are you a "slave" and not "sub&q... - 8/4/2008 4:57:40 AM

HeidiAnn

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For me it depends on the person i am with what term is used to describe me. When i am un-owned or in a relationship where i am allowed to choose my description, i use the word slave. The reason for using it is my favorite quote:

"The most difficult thing is trying not to forget who you really want to be." - Nong Toom

i use it to remind me.

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RE: Why are you a "slave" and not "sub&q... - 8/4/2008 8:59:17 AM

ImpGrrl

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ORIGINAL: DominaSmartass

if YOU identify as a "slave" why do you use that word and not submissive?

I identify as *me*, overall - but I'll roll with the question ;)

I'm *his* slave, because we have agreed that he owns me. That's all - that's the only dividing line. Our relationship looks exactly like it did before we decided that he owned me, before I was his slave.

I'm not "a slave", or "a submissive", because not only don't I identify as such, I don't seek it out in relationships either. My d/s is based on the specific chemistry between me and someone else. Most often, and most preferred, it's dominant or neutral - rarely, it's submissive.

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RE: Why are you a "slave" and not "sub&q... - 8/4/2008 9:26:19 AM

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I identify as MasterK's slave because outside of our common hard limits, and anything illegal, I would do whatever was asked/ordered of me. He would not have a submissive, only a slave, and over the months of getting to know him, and negotiating with him, my desire to belong to him overcame any reservations about being his.

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